I am debating equality of the sexes with a female friend but need advice.

AirSailer · 2022-11-12T00:50:23+00:00

1 is simply rediculous... It sounds like she is interested in pegging and is using equality as a way to push her interest and avoid some perceived embarrassment.

Fixitboyblue2 · 2022-11-12T04:30:31+00:00

Not good girlfriend material...run away

2022-11-11T23:21:41+00:00

I don’t get it. If women believe that a few minutes of sex can ruin their lives, why are the repeatedly engaging in casual sex ?

Drakethepirate · 2022-11-11T23:46:10+00:00

How does being pegged relate to gender equality if men and women are biologically different? Men don't have a vagina. Nonsense!
Nonsense! She needs to back that up. I have never heard of someone being killed by a penis stab. Was she trolling you? The pill on its own gives almost zero chances of pregnancy, if you add a condom to that the chances of getting pregnant are way less than the chance of being hit by a lightning on a rainy day.

Aronacus · 2022-11-11T23:57:52+00:00

sounds like she has a pegging fetish. OP let us know if when you drink with her your ass hurts the next day. It's not the whiskey!
if sex can ruin her life? Does she see children as an evil? Remember the sexual revolution wasn't launched by men, women wanted to go out and sleep around.
It just so happens men benefit from sex with no strings attached.

sosojose · 2022-11-12T08:32:10+00:00

Just keep questioning what she means by that.

Ok-Restaurant-9356 · 2022-11-12T13:36:34+00:00

That's the funniest thing i've ever seen on this sub. Why you guys have these kind of friends ? She has a pegging fetish.

Tell her you are okay with pegging as long as she can help you to giving a birth to a child. Let biology talk for you. Tell her if you cant do everything she can, that is not equality.

Having sex doesn't kill anybody. Pregnancy does, which is almost %99 avoidable.

thenewkidd1980 · 2022-11-12T17:35:40+00:00

Sex positions are irrelevant to equality.

Though you might want to start and ask "What do you mean by equality?"

There is equality of outcome

There is equality of opportunity

There are equality of shared experiences

I mean, there are a ton of "equality" statements that can be argued where she may be correct.

But because sex is something that requires consent, you have the right to accept or

reject anyone for any reason no matter how irrational it is.

She is viewing sex from a female perspective. It may be unfair that it takes a woman about 10 to 15 minutes to climax and a man may only need 2 to 3 minutes.

The main point is when dealing with sex, you have to communicate with your partner of your lists of "dos and don'ts" and what you like and what you don't like.

You cannot have a hard and fast rule of "equality" as everyone has their different likes. no matter how common they are or uncommon. You cannot assume.

For me, nothing goes in my butthole. That's the rule. I will not put anything in her butthole either. That's my rule. If those are deal breakers, then we are not a match and we part ways.

DarkEnergy67 · 2022-11-13T06:25:24+00:00

Arguing with feminists is a pointless waste of time. Because I have time to spare, and it is a fun sport, I often argue with feminists, but I do it for entertainment rather than hoping they will change.

The key is to recognise that they will avoid logic and reason and go straight into creating an emotional response from you. Their goal is to knock over your emotional foundation, and they are very skilled at this. They have to do this because they cannot win with logic and reason.

Before you argue with a feminist, you must ground yourself emotionally and refuse all temptations to get emotional, because if you get emotional then you are easily manipulated.

Your last and strongest card to play is to say that men should walk away and leave alone, no dating, no ltr, no marriage, no babies etc. this is powerful because these are the things women want, but they want to do these things whilst controlling men.

The real power of men comes when they real they can choose not to be controlled by women.

Men have a right to say no. And this drives feminists crazy.

The reality is most men say yes to women, but these aren’t the men women want. Often women desire the men who say no to them. Women do not think like men.

Last advice when argue with your feminist friend, you must be 100% willing to walk away from the friendship before you start arguing. If not, she can emotionally manipulate you and win.

LakiL_ · 2022-11-13T16:29:54+00:00

If she thinks men should be willing to be pegged, then they should be willing to perform 100% of the sexual act while I lay in bed and make sure I have all the pleasure. Also, they should know exactly all the names and places of my sexual parts, even if every human body is different.

As for number 2, men can break their dicks during sex and be permanently maimed. Imagine being limp in a society that deliberately makes fun of flaccid or small penises. Hehehehe

TenuousOgre · 2022-11-14T16:40:32+00:00

Tell her if she truly wants equality she'll argue that women at 18 also be required to sign up for selective service. And that if we're going to have women only safe spaces, scholarships, and other employment or hiring practices, then we also need similar men only safe spaces, men's shelters, equal treatment in divorce and child custody, and requirments for women to even out the workforce, especially in out door labor intensive jobs.

As for the pegging just remind her of the older feminist talking point, "Sex should never be coerced. If someone doesn't want to have sex, or that type or frequency of sex, that's their right." She can't win with this one, honestly.

Title	I am debating equality of the sexes with a female friend but need advice.
Author	ApplicationClassic19
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	November 11, 2022 9:47 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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1 is simply rediculous... It sounds like she is interested in pegging and is using equality as a way to push her interest and avoid some perceived embarrassment.