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Patriarchal Projection: Why it’s Them and Definitely Not Us

SnarkSticks

November 1, 2022
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Title Patriarchal Projection: Why it’s Them and Definitely Not Us
Author

SnarkSticks

Upvotes 291
Comments 36
Date November 1, 2022 9:24 AM UTC
(3 years ago)
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Comments

[–]juicyjuicery 227 points228 points229 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Describes my ex to a T. He jokes about women being “big” and he’s borderline obese. Projection and denial are narcissistic misogynists weapons of choice

[–][deleted] 92 points93 points94 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Mine called fat women sows when his ass looked like a 14-months-pregnant one.

[–]juicyjuicery 20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

High five that these losers are exes!

[–]joooloop 33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This is my dad. When he was his fattest, actually obese, he talked so much shit about my mom being overweight. Then, when I got older and began gaining weight (normal pre-teen bodily changes) he was so fuckin’ mean about my weight. It continued into my adult years, until I had the courage to cut him out completely. He also said shit about DV, such as (tw for male violence against women) ”women deserve to be beaten because they drive men fucking crazy” and that “all women are psycho and deserve to be hit”

[–]juicyjuicery 23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

JFC! Glad you cut him out of your life

[–]podPHD1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

We are half the global population and do not have equal say in what happens to our bodies, yet the WHOLE world was birthed by us and with great pain.

Yet the incels and shitwits show us how we need to take Darwin seriously and breed out the stupid.

[–]LianaVinogradova 30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

yet the WHOLE world was birthed by us and with great pain.

And somehow women are the weakest sex, somehow women are subhumans and lesser people than men.
Women literally create life and create food to feed the lifes they have created, but women are subhumans, worse than men in any way and should submit to them, uh-huh 🤦🤦

[–]8jjjjjjjj 55 points56 points57 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

“We are half of the population and do not have an equal say in our bodies” you really nailed the point so perfectly 👌🏼

[–]thedomage 38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Women are more likely to be MORE than half the population (living longer) and representation is diabolical in parliaments globally. Men commit most crime and women end up paying for it.

[–]candyred1 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This

[–]No_Joke_9079 117 points118 points119 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Definitely projection. I remember an old boss of mine, overweight gross creep, saying "men love skinny women in jeans," or to that affect.

[–]Dingle_wallaroo 162 points163 points164 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

That's why I never give fat dudes a chance. They would never date you if the shoe is on the other foot.

[–]frenchie_classic 44 points45 points46 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I dated a fat guy very briefly because he was very sweet and had a lot of HV qualities. I was attracted to his face and had no problem making out with him, but if he was on top of me, I felt scared like he was going to actually crush me. For that reason I could never feel safe dating someone that much bigger than me. Men don't have to worry about personal safety even if the roles were reversed.

[–]No_Joke_90791 points 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Ew, I had a boyfriend, once, second-to-last before i gave up men forever, who i liked because he had plenty of money, swimming pool, jacuzzi, gave me 3credit cards, was good at sex (although he had a tiny weinie). But he was overweight, and as time went on, gained even more weight. At the time, i was overweight, too, but shortly before I broke up with him (because he would lift up the blanket from my 18-year-old daughter when she fell asleep on the couch watching tv), i went on weight Watchers, and asked him to go on it with me, which he declined. But There was something very disturbing about the way he ate food, he would eat so anxiously and breathing fast while he ate it, almost like he was afraid someone would snatch it off of his plate before he could eat it. Freaked me out.

[–]6ran9eee 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I dated a fat fuck and he fatshamed me for eating a burrito and 3 tacos like that was a once in a while thing :/

[–]Dingle_wallaroo1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (23 children) | Copy Link

Patriarchal societies are run by man-children who preach about accountability but only when it suits them. You should see how many men agree with a mandatory curfew for women for their own so called safety but would call you a tyrant if you suggested the same thing for men. Personally, I believe when it comes to curfews men should have one. Who makes the streets unsafe for women and children? Men. so why must their targets adapt?

Heaps of men want rape to be legal as long as the man didn't violently beat her so that victims won't get killed afterwards but would call the death penalty for proven rapists too harsh and they need to be rehabilitated instead.

Men are offended by pink taxies for women only, anti-rape trousers designed by women for women because " what about men ?? ! "

Even women that aren't their wives or relatives men want to have control over, one dude thought he was being the Alpha by recording women in their bikini's on the beach berating them saying they shouldn't wear micro bikini's in front of children. The dude got fired when the video went viral but this is a small example of what men would do if they have free reign over a womans existence.

Men are not your allies and women need to stop mistreating other women to be liked by men because if men had their way then your future wouldn't go beyond the kitchen.

[–]Jigglygiggler6 56 points57 points58 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Seems to be rapidly heading that way again!

[–]Dingle_wallaroo 66 points67 points68 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Correct. They already took the right to abort and soon they'll deny you the pill. And in the distant future they'll take all the rights away. If women don't consider segregation and have a woman only country, it will happen.

[–]Jigglygiggler6 34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would like to join that country!

[–]LianaVinogradova 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Heaps of men want rape to be legal as long as the man didn't violently beat her so that victims won't get killed

They want that but they also disgusted by women who've been raped or harassed and don't wanna date and sleep with them

[–]99powerFDS Apprentice 27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Around 30% of men say that they would rape if they could get away without consequences. And that’s only the ones who would admit it on a survey.

[–]Dingle_wallaroo 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's the worst part. I've seen two posts about a girl who got chewed out because she didn't want to date a man who has been molested.

And another one where a man didn't want to date a woman who has been raped. the difference is that the man didn't get chewed out besides a few hostile msgs, there were dudes who said those women are damaged goods. I don't like men in general especially when I see this crap.

[+]ocherome -14 points-13 points-12 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Who proposed curfew for women?

[–]Dingle_wallaroo 54 points55 points56 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Saudi Arabia. But heaps of men in the west agrees with this.

[–]1texas_kitty 39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Plenty of them also believe we shouldn't have the right to vote. And if they can, they will take away that right too.

[–]Jigglygiggler6 40 points41 points42 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

They don't even need to implement a curfew. We know it's not safe. When l walk to work in the afternoon, the women on the street greatly outnumber the men. When l am headed home, l notice it's only men around, enjoying their freedom.

[–]Dingle_wallaroo 56 points57 points58 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

If anyone thinks a curfew to keep women safe is needed, then men should be on mandatory curfews not us. They are usually the ones who commit the crimes.

[–]Jigglygiggler6 16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I agree. But it's a man's world so that's never going to happen.

[–]Dingle_wallaroo 19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's the only way to keep criminality on a low pitch.

[–]Jigglygiggler6 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wish they'd at least give it a try just to get a look at the stats.

[–]Excellent_Law6906 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The Sultana's Dream, sis. Piece of literature over a century old where it's pointed out that if you really want to defend women and their honor, purdah ought to go the other way.

[–]AnonymousFartMachine 29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Maybe I got lucky but I’m a fat woman whose boyfriend is also fat and he’s been nothing but kind and treats me very well. I haven’t spent a single dime of my own money since the first date. He’s very affectionate, holds open doors and seems to actually care about what I have to say and takes my feelings into consideration.

Absolutely the best partner I’ve had so far.

[–]DreamlikeNile 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lovely 😌👍

[–]Ok_Choice_3173[🍰] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's really lovely to hear! Just wanted to add on (not at you specifically, just as a general comment) that some fat men projecting doesn't mean all fat men will be the same way. I know some skinny men who have been cruel to fat women too (or anyone who's bigger). Gaining a lot of weight can just be a sign of physical health issues or problems with mental/emotional health (like binge eating) but it's separate from being a POS. It sounds like your boyfriend is a great person regardless of his weight :)

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Congrats on a wonderful and loving relationship :) Perhaps you did get lucky because I don't hear about too many men like him.

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