What to respond with when a girl says "Sorry forgot to respond"?

vandaalen · 2018-01-01T19:03:28+00:00

I am not a fan of this. Soft-nexting usually doesn't work very well with girls you didn't fuck at least two times.

You can rest assured that she had another option in the pipeline, she thought was better than you, but for whatever reason it didn't work out the way she thought. Maybe the guy turned out to be a chump, maybe he nexted her.

However you are her backup plan. No biggie in my opinion, just be aware of it.

Just pretend as if nothing happened and set up a date.

Also stop making plans on the weekend with them. That's a privilege that has to be earned by them.

nofilmynofucky · 2018-01-02T00:15:53+00:00

'Sorry forgot to respond'

Translation:

got a better offer, rode him all night but now that he's gone I guess you're next on the list

Fuck her if you want to, don't spend money on her.

NazoXIII · 2018-01-01T18:16:18+00:00

Right on the money.

If she asks, you forgot to respond.

walawalawa · 2018-01-02T00:08:50+00:00

Depends on the state of your interactions. If this is the very beginning and you've gamed her properly and sparked attraction..."sorry forgot to respond" is basically "I want attention and realize I looked like an idiot".

I would shoot back a text: "Oh. Find a way to make it up to me..."

This does a few things: 1. Shows you don't really care or didn't notice. 2. Gives her a command 3. Forces her to qualify herself. 4. Makes you a prize. 5. It's a surprise response so she'll get tingles thinking "What???" it's playful asshole.

So many guys ask "How do I be an asshole?" This is playful jerkboy. A guy who doesn't care but when provoked realizes his time is valuable and makes her jump through hoops.

She'll come back with "How?" or be shitty. If she asks how, suggest drinks and a time and plough on. If she gets crappy, leave it.

Deep_freeze202 · 2018-01-02T02:27:49+00:00

Ignore her for a few days and then respond with " it's cool, who's this again?"

juliusstreicher · 2018-01-02T03:45:54+00:00

Either she has you way, way down on the 'Call as a last resort' list, or she's had head injuries, both of which are reason's for her to 'forget to respond'.

Call her for a booty call, nothing more.

[deleted] · 2018-01-01T19:31:59+00:00

She's not interested best just to unmatch or delete her number.

red-arctic-tern · 2018-01-02T09:10:35+00:00

"No problem, I have Tinder."

Title	What to respond with when a girl says "Sorry forgot to respond"?
Author	iphonepencil
Upvotes	18
Comments	28
Date	January 1, 2018 5:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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