Why Men don’t write about Sex and Dating — The Centre for Male Psychology

Castruccio_Castracan · 2023-04-06T09:02:50+00:00

Men write plenty about sex and dating. They do so anonymously, because speaking truth on these topics brings social condemnations in our current environment; they are denounced as redpillers, incels, PUAs and all manner of buzzwords designed to stigmatise and discredit them, so that no man shall run the risk of chancing to read them and being corrupted by their foul views.

But they do write plenty. And when they do, and other men overcome the social programming and listen to them, they find themselves most often agreeing. They speak of a dating environment made contradictory and impossible by a hyper-feminised culture that wants men to be supremely subservient, which makes them undesirable, and supremely desirable, which makes them unsubservient; that makes men walk on eggshells to avoid a plethora of life-destroying accusations, while giddily shaming and ostracising them if they don't enjoy sexual success.

LouisdeRouvroy · 2023-04-06T07:56:43+00:00

The original Guardian article had this quote:

And of course, as so many young men are doing of late, you can dive
headlong into the cesspit of woman hacking, care of professed misogynist
Andrew Tate. But that isn’t exactly what I had in mind.

So the question is more, "Why don't men write about sex and dating in a way that is palatable to my leftist sensibilities?"...

Suddenly_Sisyphus42 · 2023-04-06T16:48:27+00:00

So more of the why can't men behave, think, and exist like women from the Guardian, basically?

Vaudeville_Clown · 2023-04-07T07:58:15+00:00

"Men are, in fact, talking about their sex and dating problems, but they’re not doing it in the media under their names. It’s happening anonymously on places like Reddit. "

Yeah, fuck the published media, and fuck the "public debate". Those arenas are beyond saving.

Male writers should stay away. They're nicely contributing to it's stagnation, merely by not being there and offering their pov. Even though it always panders to women now, even they get bored and leave after they've read a couple of 100 columns that sound just the same. I think that's already happening.

In this instance mgtow actually works. Bare your soul anonymously on reddit gentlemen. Never do it in a column under your own name.

jjj2576 · 2023-04-07T19:02:51+00:00

Y’know— I feel like the author here hasn’t ever touched Rollo or Pook. So I’m just going to ignore them.

Ok_Night_7767 · 2023-04-07T22:40:13+00:00

Perhaps men would write more about their feelings if there was a lot more listening on the other side.

Title	Why Men don’t write about Sex and Dating — The Centre for Male Psychology
Author	Heavy_Grand2526
Upvotes	68
Comments	7
Date	April 6, 2023 7:00 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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