What does obedience and submission mean to you? Do you think either of them are important in a marriage?

babyegirll · 2023-04-04T15:01:13+00:00

For me it's accepting his decisions on things and being able to relax in knowing that I don't have to make those decisions. I struggle with making choices and overthinking, and I know that whatever he chooses is what's best for us. He's taking my opinions and concerns into account, but he's ultimately going to make what he thinks is the best decision, and I trust that it will be a good one. It takes the stress off of me, and if I'm less stressed, I'm sure that I'm easier to be around and I make for a better soft spot for him.

tambourine_goddess · 2023-04-04T16:13:04+00:00

Personally, as a practicing Christian, I believe that a women is to submit to her husband, as the Church submits to Christ. I ALSO believe that a man is to die (to himself) the way Chriat died for the Church.

Practically, that looks like my husband making the decisions in the realm that he's moat comfortable, and I make decisions in the realm I'm most comfortable. It works well for us. I DO NOT BELIEVE WOMEN ARE CALLED TO BE COSMIC DOORMATS FOR OVERBEARING MEN.

Protocol_Apollo · 2023-04-04T15:34:20+00:00

They are very important because they are honest signals of respect to him.

The biggest litmus test to see whether a woman respects a man is her submission and obedience.

If a man genuinely believes you respect him and nobody else,he will move heaven and earth for you.

Similar thing if a woman genuinely believes you love her and nobody else.

swmac39 · 2023-04-04T18:09:58+00:00

It’s Biblical. It’s Gods design for harmony within the marriage. Without it there is emotional and biochemical repercussions.

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red_Mercedez · 2023-04-04T18:02:49+00:00

Submission to me just means softness, being able to sway, not being so rigid towards your partner.
Obedience is not a word I would like to use, reminds me of like owner and pet haha.

Title	What does obedience and submission mean to you? Do you think either of them are important in a marriage?
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Date	April 4, 2023 2:49 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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