Not even divorced yet and stbx is already with a guy. On top of that I kinda know him and he’s trouble. We were married for 16 yrs also. Yet she’s making it seem so easy to move on. I knew this would happen eventually and I would be happy for her if she met a decent guy. Seems like she is trying so hard to make me jealous? Not gonna lie, it’s hard seeing that. Especially since she is already trying to introduce him to my kids. I’m fighting for full custody also. I have 4 kids. She is more concerned about her boyfriend than spending time with kids. They haven’t been with her a night since she left last November. She spends less than 9 hours a week with kids also. It’s upsetting because I’m doing everything for them while she is doing very minimal. I just retained a lawyer also.