I really hate this concept of "using someone for sex". Because it gives the assumption she had no consent. 99% of the time the woman enjoys the sex and sometimes even more than the man.

If a woman decides to sleep with me and regrets it afterwards, that is nobody’s problem, but her's. Acting like she didn’t put it back in after it slipped out (my fault, but you get the idea), and things of that nature, then acting like she got "used" tf.

The majority of men want a relationship and if they are not seeing what they want with the girl they are courting. They have every right to end or leave whatever was going on. Women’s obsession with viewing men as objects they can treat as they please is sick and concerning. We are not some side characters to your weird ass story.

The worst part about this all is you can be clear from the get go. And say you don’t want a relationship or say you are looking for both. In the end, the woman will still end up trying to coerce/manipulate you into a relationship 💀

Here's how this all usually goes:

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  1. ⁠You tell her that you are looking for a relationship and are open to something else.
  2. She complains that, even though she agrees to it, she doesn’t want to feel used.
  3. ⁠The girl plays it cool, keeps up the hot enthusiastic sex, she is very eager to please you.
  4. ⁠A few weeks / months past, she starts asking "What are we, where is this going?".
  5. ⁠If you end up not viewing her as a potential partner, you tell her that you don’t want anything serious or end up leaving before this stage.
  6. She gets mad at you and complains that you used her and deceived her. Even though you were honest from the start. She says you sent mixed signals, as you did things like taking her to dinners or introducing her to your friends. (basically treating her like a human)
  7. ⁠Bonus: She goes on social media to complain that the guy she was "dating" used her and misled her into thinking he wanted something more.

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Women try to use sex as a bargaining tool to get into a relationship (very manipulative if you ask me) and then get mad when it doesn't work. Thinking sex is something you give to men and then wondering why men leave you consistently is crazyyyy.

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L game as usual

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