Sorry guys but it is becoming painfully clear to me what is meant by " you won't heal till she's gone" her and her significant other are going to be out by next weekend. We spent today clearing up utilities and who takes what where and even though the process wasn't super contentious (thank God) I feel like a raw wound. I took three days off. Have to go back to work tomorrow. Emotionally not sure I can. But that's tomorrow's problem. On a side note, is it petty if I fight her over the crockpot. We got two as wedding presents. One from her brother and one from my brother. She gave the one from her brother to her other boyfriend that was after me but before her new girlfriend.. so I'm half tempted to tell her if she wants a crockpot she can go take that one back from him. Thoughts?? I thought I was handling it pretty good.... Today feels like I'm falling apart again but at least the end is in sight.