How to feel and look less like a child and more like a women ?

tambourine_goddess · 2023-05-01T17:23:54+00:00

This will naturally fade as you age.. I had EXTREMELY baby-faced cheeks until I was 23 or 24. As you get into your 40s, you'll appreciate that you had so much collagen, because you won't get the sunken-in cheek thing.

Imo, there are some topical things you can do in the meantime: - adopt a more sophisticated hairstyle. Extra long hair SCREAMS 'young'. Think past your shoulders but before your boobs. - dress the age you want to be. When I was in my early 20's, I was all about cheap clothes from Forever 21. Eventually, I realized that this further enhanced my childish look, and so I started learning my style and started adopting a mid to late 20's look. YMMV, but I prefer more classic silhouettes and looks. - makeup. Make sure it isn't crazy colors and super bold. That tends to look juvenile.

Again, you can only adjust so much about your genetics. DON'T get it removed. I promise you'll regret it. Instead, work on giving off an air of sophistication. But that doesn't mean stuffy and old.

morbidityofanother · 2023-05-02T02:51:55+00:00

Lean on classic style rather than current trends. This will keep you from dressing too maturely, but also elevate you out of feeling quite so childish. I would look at style inspirations like Audrey Hepburn and Kate Middleton, who have that classic style down pat. Obviously, allow some room to make the style your own. Nothing is wrong with having a round, chubby-cheeked face. What makes a bigger impression upon people is how you carry yourself, how you talk to people, and how you style yourself.

youllknowwhenitstime · 2023-05-02T06:32:17+00:00

Going to go against the grain here and say put the makeup brushes down. That kind of "aging" is not the kind of aging you want. Doing weight lifting, including body weight, exercises at the gym will help redistribute your body composition to look more "mature". Be sure to eat enough that you get results from this; the extra strain of exercise means you'll need more food.

And u/morbidityofanother is spot on with the fashion advice!

I had similar issues. Worked out ok for me - as many are saying, this is mostly a positive for you. :)

Therandomderpdude · 2023-05-01T18:16:30+00:00

I would put more emphasis on mature clothing that frames your curves and waist. Look up ways you can look taller in clothing.

Find a hairstyle that makes your face appear less round.

Experiment with makeup. Deeper Dark/brown-ish colors tend to make you look more mature.

I also have a baby face. I am 24 and petite in height.

RedPillDad · 2023-05-03T15:10:09+00:00

Embrace the cute. My wife looks just like you. She's 5'2", round face, pinchable baby cheeks and she knows I adore her cuteness, even after 40+ years of marriage.

Cuteness is more sustainable than hotness, especially if it's coupled with femininity.

when I curse they tell me it sounds funny, just like a child cursing .

Trying to compensate or break out of being 'the cute girl' is a mistake. You are cute, play the part. Plenty of men will want you just as you are. If you want to be 'the funny girl', by all means do funny stuff like cursing and telling vagina jokes. If you want to be 'the crazy girl' do unpredictable stuff. You've been gifted a strong brand identity, my suggestion is to embrace it.

willowaverie · 2023-05-02T02:57:43+00:00

You’re 21, embrace the cuteness of your youth! You’ll age like fine wine.

AutoModerator · 2023-05-01T16:45:51+00:00

Title: How to feel and look less like a child and more like a women ?

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I'm 21 almost 22 years old and I still feel like a child, I still feel that older men and sometimes even men my age look at me like a child.

I'm on the shorter side and still hold some baby fat in my face and it has a roundish shape.

I always hear how having a youthful look is attractive but I feel like I'm just cute and not beautiful, or at least that's how people around me see me.

Even my friends joke about how they can't even curse around me and when I curse they tell me it sounds funny, just like a child cursing .

I want to feel and look a little more mature and use my features to my advantage because now I feel like they're not serving me in any way

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WudderWings · 2023-05-03T01:34:18+00:00

Cute is better than beautiful. Embrace your uniqueness.

SnooHedgehogs7759 · 2023-05-03T12:18:57+00:00

I am 31 years old and I feel kind of like a child still. Also others seem to think I'm much younger than I am. It's because my style and looks as well, but probably it's even more because of my attitude. I think I have this innocent cheerful vibe going on for me.

You could observe, how you act, maybe you could change some of your expressions into more elegant and mature ones? Maybe slow down a bit?

The style is of course very important as well, but others already talked about this. I wanted to add about insoles for shoes though. These make you taller. When I was younger I made a pair of thick insoles (I cut out and taped together heel parts of 4 normal ones:). I wanted my legs to look prettier in flat shoes, but these also add some height if you want to look taller while wearing comfortable flat shoes. You can easily buy these though, no need to get crafty.

TAonlyfor · 2023-05-07T15:13:05+00:00

You can definitely try changing your behavior when it comes to speaking, they said “siren” or any seductive type like Marilyn Monroe tends to have one thing in common which is moving and enunciating words very clearly and slowly. When you do that, people’s perception of you would be a tad different. Here’s the link.

Title	How to feel and look less like a child and more like a women ?
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