I am asking if there is a gentle intro blog post that gives good tips to those who aren't yet redpill. Yes, I know, either you grok it or you don't, there's no reason to pussyfoot around, anything short of full redpill won't work, etc.

Here's the background: My 23-year-old son. I love him dearly. He's a good soul. He's very empathetic, and he really hates conflict. The net result is, women use him. The only times he really got into trouble in high school were when some bimbo or other he had a crush on, talked him into doing something stupid - for HER. He went along because he thought being nice would get the girl. As we know, that never worked out for him.

He did finally get a girlfriend when he was 21. Yay for regular sex, but man this girl is whack. Needy, clinging, reads texts from his phone, tries to keep him away from friends and family, always asking "who's that? what do they want? what are they saying?" while me or other family members are on the phone with him. She was fat once but had her gut stapled, so she's not really thin, but not gross either (for now). She's still the needy insecure fat girl, inside. My son is actually pretty good looking, his sisters' friends have all remarked positively on his looks. But I don't think he feels his own value.

Anyway, long story short: I think, suspect, hope, that they are about to break up. But without the right guidance I am pretty sure he'll fall right back into the same kind of relationship. I am certainly going to pull him aside and talk to him. But I'd like to point him toward some helpful blog posts if I can, to reinforce it.

Now I liked (Roissy's?) 14 points of game. But I know that it would be too much too soon for my son. I think he'd be shocked by the raw redpill truths and would immediately turn away from it. I'm looking for some essays he could read which would give the basics on how to properly approach and relate to woman, without the shocking raw truth.

Now perhaps that's a bad idea, I don't know. But I do know my son and he's so so bluepill right now that I am sure the straight-up truth wouldn't work with him. I'm hoping he can approach it slowly. Once he gets the idea he can follow it to its logical conclusion... or not... it's his life. But I do want to at least set him on the right path if I can. It makes me so sad when I see women treat him the way they do, knowing he could fix that if he knew.