Red Pill Failures

puaSenator · 2014-03-03T03:34:51+00:00

If you don't want to go into detail, how are we supposed to highlight errors?

theredcandy · 2014-03-03T06:14:27+00:00

I read more theory and blue pill example posts than I did practical game advice. I naively dismissed all routines by lumping them with furry hats magic tricks. I figured I knew enough theory to figure shit out for myself when I'd start going out regularly.

While this is true on some levels...why should I reinvent the wheel? I need to be more strategic about what I do, and use more tact. I tend to escalate too quickly, and this is usually bad here. The women are more uppity and somewhat "nice".

Sufferix · 2014-03-03T04:22:43+00:00

You start!

Where have you fucked up?

Sufferix · 2014-03-03T18:28:29+00:00

So I guess, she couldn't look past her solipsism. And in your post you called her the unicorn. So is it actually a surprise she believed she is one?

But rebuild my dear friend, that is why you are a man. Believe me she is more than replaceable, and your next relationship will be better because there won't be such a power imbalance at it's foundation. Good luck.

machimus · 2014-03-05T00:41:09+00:00

Detail is how we learn. Field reports aren't just for glowing successes. They are also for talking about our failures, so we can all pull out learning points and benefit from our pool of experience.

2014-03-03T04:34:42+00:00

We're not here to judge. Only point errors and allow others to learn from their mistakes.

Please do share your experiences.

phaseonx11 · 2014-03-04T13:52:10+00:00

I have a hard time finding the middle between being an excessive asshole (what feels natural) to women and being too "nice".

I have a crude sense of humor and I love to fuck with girls. They aren't used to dudes being so blunt/not giving them special treatment.

Ex. that happened in class a couple of days ago: "Let me copy, please! please please." No. You never do any work. Sides, I don't like you enough. walks away to turn in paper. The way they react to situations like these are funny.

I've noticed that this is my MO with girls. To just be a complete asshole from the beginning. Thinking objectively and rationally, it's not something advantageous and it's probably hurting my numbers.

Girls like teasing, but brazenly being an asshole turns them off completely(?).

I feel its a sort of defense mechanism that I've developed to avoid rejection and that it is a remnant of the person I used to be.

AR have any comments or advice on what could help speed up the process? Perhaps anybody having/had a similar experience?

Title	Red Pill Failures
Author	Sufferix
Upvotes	6
Comments	26
Date	March 3, 2014 3:02 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AlreadyRed
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