that's why reddit is majority bluepilled and white knight. guys who have women chase them down for sex (yes, this is what it's about, that's all it's ever about, women want to fuck) understand how ridiculous things like marriage-culture (expensive weddings, etc) are. and ideas of being nice, respectful, holding doors, sayin the right thing, whatever. it just doesn't matter that much cause women will just chase u down regardless. so it self reinforces.

guys who get no women chasing them don't understand that this even happens, so they just go with whatever society says about men and women are like.