I'm dating a girl and have been hearing about the troubles that one of her single friends is experiencing with online dating apps. As far as I can tell, her main problem is that her standards are very high and she can easily find high quality guys who are willing to casually date, but she can't maintain a quality relationship.

I told my girlfriend to offer the advice of listening to less of what the guys say to her and to focus more on the guy's actions because they are a more reliable indicator.

I then suggested that she try to arrange a date where he would be obligated to bring some friends such as a volleyball game. If the friends of the guy she is seeing are willing to cultivate a friendship with her, it would be a reliable indicator that the guy sees her as a potential long term relationship.

Any other advice for a high smv girl in a major city that keeps getting pumped and dumped?