she has desire once maybe twice if I’m the one asking… it’s been that way for a few years even though I’ve asked for it to change. Now I feel different about my wife and sex, I don’t have the desire… (also I had an affair and made me realize that maybe we are not compatible). Explained how I feel… obv she wants to try and fix this but i don’t see it changing since is her nature… but I feel like shit for saying all those things to her… I feel like the worst person… was it valid?