How do you keep girls at home dtf while traveling abroad?

[deleted] · 2018-01-19T17:35:48+00:00

Why do you care?

You're abroad, find abroad girls that are dtf.

When you return home either those girls will be down or they won't.

Let me sum this up for you: Abundance.

lampshade2818 · 2018-01-19T18:21:51+00:00

"Riding llamas, shirtless 6pack poses with horses"

This is one of the funniest things I've ever read on Reddit. Dude- Just have fun when studying abroad, keep riding llamas, and taking shirtless photos with horses. You'll be fine.

jb_trp · 2018-01-19T18:05:23+00:00

The first girl still watches all my snaps very closely but the second one seems to have stopped after like a week. A third girl I blocked from viewing my stuff but chat with her almost daily but she gets jealous easily. They're all around 18.

Dude...

This is information that you shouldn't know, shouldn't care about, and shouldn't even think about (and certainly shouldn't talk about on the internet). You are assigning way too much motive to each of these chick's behavior.

For all you know, the girl who "watches your snaps very closely" could be flipping through snapchat while laying naked in bed and the dude she just fucked is taking a shower in the bathroom?

Stop mate guarding, stop chasing chicks that are 1000 miles away, and enjoy your trip. When you come back, they'll still be there and will either be interested in you or not. And even if they're not... There are plenty of more chicks. Girls really aren't special unicorns when you've dated enough of them, some are better than others, but they're all people in the end, flaws and all. Nobody is perfect.

And a girl "liking" you is a very fluid thing. I've had LTRs who told me how amazing I was and how I was "the answer to all their ex boyfriends," and a month later they're gone. Why? Who knows. It's life. Things are good until they're not, and then you move on.

Focus on yourself, being centered, happy, and killing it in life. Everything else will work itself out.

trponly14 · 2018-01-19T19:28:29+00:00

The irony of this is worrying about how to keep girls interested will invariably make them disinterested.

poochman · 2018-01-19T18:50:49+00:00

You are doing the right thing. Keep snapping you doing cool stuff while being non-needy and you should be able to pick up where you left off when you return. Maybe they fuck a guy or two while you're gone but who cares.

Ricardo2991 · 2018-01-19T17:55:13+00:00

Just ignore them until you get back. Enjoy the adventure and forget about everything at home... Including girls.

ThickDickWarrior89 · 2018-01-19T18:46:28+00:00

How do you keep them interested? By not trying to keep them interested at all. By not even thinking about them for that matter. Then when you return- randomly: approach, or hit them up and the feelings they had for you will instantly return. And if they don’t- on to the next one.

UseForThrowAwayStuff · 2018-01-20T00:08:07+00:00

Social proof and pre selection on your social media.

Also drama.

M23W0OH7FV2t · 2018-01-19T21:17:11+00:00

You don't. They're all discardable. So don't worry about it.

BurnieSlander · 2018-01-20T04:41:30+00:00

Jesus Facepalming Christ.

You’re seeking validation from these girls. Do you see the problem with that?

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Title	How do you keep girls at home dtf while traveling abroad?
Author	UseForThrowAwayStuff
Upvotes	7
Comments	15
Date	January 19, 2018 4:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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