Should I try to shag hot hulky dude at hostel?

ArdentBandicoot · 2023-07-11T10:04:16+00:00

OP, I am in two minds about removing this post. Rule 4 states:

Strategies for securing no-commitment sex from men will not be discussed. This is not something women typically want, and not something they need with help with if they do.

Please be aware that the mod team will be removing comments that advise going through with no-commitment sex. I am going to leave the post up, however, because you did ask an open question, and I think RPW can still provide helpful interpretations of his actions.

buttermiIk · 2023-07-11T10:04:59+00:00

Why is this posted here

horologist2018 · 2023-07-11T12:26:50+00:00

chucked his drink at him (more context behind this but I think reasonable to do this) … he didn’t seem to care too much in the morning (a red flag?)

So, you threw his drink at him, and you follow this up by asking if him not engaging the next day is a red flag.

Throwing drinks at people is a red flag.

None of us can know why he didn't care much in the morning. But I would venture to guess that he doesn't care because you mean very little to him. Emotionally stable men, men who know who they are, will write you off as an immature little girl who throws drinks when she gets angry.

throwaway253025 · 2023-07-11T10:55:13+00:00

Don’t catch an STD or risk pregnancy with a guy you barely know. It will not make you feel good. You may carry regret about it for the rest of your life.

OkEstablishment6463 · 2023-07-11T19:41:57+00:00

No….

Where’s your father?

ArdentBandicoot · 2023-07-11T09:40:58+00:00

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AutoModerator · 2023-07-11T09:21:45+00:00

Title: Should I try to shag hot hulky dude at hostel?

Full text: Okay downsides: rejection would be incredibly awkward bc we’re doing a language school together

| First night: massive a hole energy initially - my type whoops - (turns out was he was spiked lol) but we had really good banter | Second night: went out in group and only concentrated on me (we didn’t dance together) but he didn’t dance with a single girl and took me out to get food individually/got all ma drinks/ actually seemed really sweet | Third night: cuddled a bit

Fast forward now: we’ve realised we’re doing the same class at a language school together in the week (everyday 5hrs) - he’s a lot more serious about this / pretty much semi friendzoned me

Catch: Went out few nights ago and he was being flirty with me again that day, but then proceeded to grind on 5/6 other girls. Was not happy, maybe chucked his drink at him (more context behind this but I think reasonable to do this) … he didn’t seem to care too much in the morning (a red flag?) Now have established we friends, but still think he’s incredibly hot

I’m off elsewhere next week and likely never see him again - should I go for it or nah ???

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Anonymous_fiend · 2023-07-11T20:49:01+00:00

No, you should instead invest your time into figuring out why massive azzholes are your type. That, needing to ask for advice regarding a hookup with a man you’ll never see again who grinds on multiple women, plus throwing a drink (no matter the circumstances) show instability. It would be more understandable if you made a dumb young drunken mistake and hooked up but you’re honestly contemplating it sober. Nun mode is needed.

Title	Should I try to shag hot hulky dude at hostel?
Author	Unable-Restaurant-37
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	July 11, 2023 9:21 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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