So just when you think it can't get bad, just know this, I am just getting ready to start all the court proceedings including 2 contempt charges...so yea life isn't created she left me financially ruined and while I got a new job and felt thing were turning around, I backed my Durango into a moving truck a few days back and messed up the whole back end pretty bad...so its going to the repair shop and I have a rental. Point is keep your head up kings, at anytime I would have been pissed I did it...but with all the stress from getting divorced and bills piling up...I was pissed but almost just laughed like of course 44yr old never had a car accident, of course it would happen now.