How easy it is to be a woman

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-24T02:39:46+00:00

BPD is a mental illness. People with BPD that isn’t treated have chaotic relationships and gravitate towards people who may not treat them well.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-08-24T09:22:34+00:00

Just to be super clear I’m predominantly speaking about physical attraction. I just don’t FANCY the good ones superficially speaking and therefore can’t bear the idea of intimacy or even being seen with them in public 😩

Oof.

RatDontPanic · 2023-08-24T02:41:38+00:00

motherfuckin hypergamy don't motherfuckin CARE

ProfessionalTwo8698 · 2023-08-24T08:01:51+00:00

Women often complain about being sexualized, well at least they want to fuck you, I was born with inferior genetics so no one wants to fuck me.

luroot · 2023-08-24T17:32:34+00:00

Wow, the comments in there are a gold mine...where women can be honest about attraction when they're not on the defensive. And it settles a common misconception that "women are attracted to bad boys"...when in fact, they're really just attracted to (facially) good-looking guys that may happen to act "bad" (or low-effort because of their oversupply of options).

It’s the physical attraction more than anything. I’m turned off by emotionally unavailable behaviour and I’m able to see red flags. I’m just not physically attracted to the the way the ‘good ones’ look.

Just having an attractive face I guess. I don’t mind if they aren’t absolutely shredded or whatever but I do need to fancy someone if I am going to be kissing them, having sex with them and being seen with them.

I’m currently with an abusive partner.

I’m very much attracted to him physically

he’s my first everything. First boyfriend, first love, he took my virginity in all holes, first kiss, moved in together etc. we’re even engaged.

Is it coincidence the "good ones" are ugly af? Lmao? Why can't I have a handsome husband like other women???

Especially me being Asian.. I just CANNOT follow stereotypes and settle with some ugly dude for money/stability. Why can't I be attracted to my man, both physically and emotionally? Just why? I can be attractive and pretty, but my man can't? Just why.

Completely relate… I’ve met plenty of guys who would treat me well and we have the potential to have a beautiful relationship but I just don’t fancy them! Not in the slightest.

I think for me personally, it's not so much that it's hard to be attracted to someone "safe and healthy". It's just that it's hard to find someone who's all of that AND I'm physically attracted to.

This is me in a nutshell. When I do find a person attractive, I am VERY sexual and can't get enough of them...but it's so rare that I even find anyone attractive at all

one of the things that attracts me to my partner is he’s very assertive, kinda alpha and doesn’t give a shit about others unless he wants to. He was born with unusually high testosterone and I always think he’s very hot

Hilarious how women like to deny or play dumb about looks...when it is literally their TOP OBSESSION and vexing dilemma/worst nightmare about eventually having to settle for a less-attractive guy in exchange for commitment and less abuse. All the relationship drama and emotions stem from THIS ROOT.

Reality is that women care just as much about looks as men do...the only difference is that they "have" to become less choosy as they get older and need a more stable lover if they want to raise children.

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2023-08-24T09:16:43+00:00

Yeah, women have it so easy. Look at the middle east for example. Women don’t have to make choices, that’s how easy their lives are. Just like in Asia or any other developing countries. Look how easy women’s life are there!!

FairyMachine · 2023-08-24T02:24:53+00:00

You do realize you're quoting from a sub for people with BPD right?

BPD is a personality disorder where the sufferer experiences high levels of emotional intensity, distress, self-harm, suicidal thoughts, all sort of fucked up stuff.

Very hardly an "easy" life.

Weekly_Signal6481 · 2023-08-24T14:17:45+00:00

I'm a man and I have standards and choose who I wanted to be with . I really can't understand why there's men who think finding a date is so difficult.

lonelycyberangel · 2023-08-24T12:21:21+00:00

The more and more I come across this sub the more I think people use this place to troll and not have a legitimate debate.

Are you being fr OP? Or is this a shitpost.

lighthub · 2023-08-24T09:21:40+00:00

How easy it is to be a woman

how disturbingly easy dating is for the average woman

Rather ingenious don’t you think, why is the thread title and contents within the thread different.

Dating alone isn’t all there is to Life. So what is this thread about, Dating or All of Life.

2023-08-24T04:27:16+00:00

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Title	How easy it is to be a woman
Author	Talagius
Upvotes	26
Comments	96
Date	August 24, 2023 1:02 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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