I (29M) tried everything i can to maximize my odds of being in a relationship. I worked out, read every self improvement book out there, and fixed my wardrobe. It still amounted to nothing and I’m still a fucking virgin.

I even got on every dating app under the sun. It only amounted to zero matches in three years. I see couples everywhere i go and it makes me upset. All my friends are in a relationship except for me. I keep my standards low and it still doesn’t work. It’s so bad to the point that my mother is losing hope that i will have kids before she dies.

I don’t want to do it but if i get to 30 and nothing changes, i might not have much of a choice. I don’t want to go through another 30 stuck on level 1 while everybody else is on level 100.