I want to know if I am in the wrong.

Straight-Maybe-9390 · 2023-09-11T21:41:27+00:00

This person is just really dumb, trying to make someone feel demeaned by others is not a good way to encourage anyone to do anything...

Maxwell1138 · 2023-09-11T23:16:57+00:00

"Treat him like shit, and if that has negative consequences, those are his problems."

elebrin · 2023-09-11T21:46:16+00:00

She would be at fault for him being sad or mad. She took action to specifically manipulate him to feel a particular way, and she is responsible for that action.

He would be at fault for any abuse or violence, because he is in control of his actions.

roflraptor-5489 · 2023-09-11T22:41:40+00:00

big brain logic bro not wrong imo, he prob already is depressed that he can’t fulfil his natural instinct to provide, 100% right

Breast_Milk_Sucker · 2023-09-11T23:33:31+00:00

Humans and wasps belonging to the same kingdom would be news to him. Also, his replies were so... weird. You weren't in the wrong.

Metraxis · 2023-09-12T00:45:08+00:00

The advice is bad. Your reaction was also bad. The better reaction would be to call out the false equivalence between an emotion (becoming depressed) and an action engaging in violence)

Organic-Brotha · 2023-09-12T01:22:08+00:00

Yeah in the wrong sub. You should know better than to attempt reason with female neckbeards. You leave those cat lady incels alone

lewandisney69 · 2023-09-12T03:37:11+00:00

The typical Reddit white knight

Woke_Wacker · 2023-09-12T01:09:26+00:00

The answer given back could have been 'or he will divorce her for being the imasculating toxic femnazi that she is, and she can join all the other single, unloved, probably obese, damaged rejects like yourself. Think about that'. Opportunity missed.

Edit: Wait, I'll do it for you 🫡

dependency_injector · 2023-09-12T04:30:56+00:00

If empathy is wrong then yes, you are in the wrong indeed.

D_Luffy_32 · 2023-09-12T05:21:14+00:00

Ahh the classic "I suddenly don't know what an analogy is and only understand literal 1 to 1 comparisons because it's convenient" argument. Or as I like to call it , the feminist chocolate fallacy.

Huge_Buddy_2216 · 2023-09-12T04:07:56+00:00

He may get mad and become abusive.

What a ridiculous deflection. You talked about him becoming depressed and suddenly this clown says he'll turn into a wife beater. I mean, "hurr hurr men dangerous" I guess, but I would have called that shit out instantly.

TenuousOgre · 2023-09-12T04:14:23+00:00

No one mentions the steps that actually works: improved sex life, increase frequency of words of affirmation, being encouraging and supportive, push him to exercise and set goals and track his efforts.

Hipphazy · 2023-09-12T01:09:14+00:00

I like this conversation and want to see the rest of it…you don’t hit a wasp nest, best way to motivate a man is to give him good sexy time then give him sucky time then more sexy time

PheonixDragon200 · 2023-09-12T03:56:09+00:00

I don’t think it’s right for the man to abuse the woman, but it’s not right for the woman to treat the man like shit. Maybe there is such a thing as a two-sided situation? 🤯

slaveknightgael40 · 2023-09-12T00:23:56+00:00

you're promoting stereotypical behaviour it's a personal attack I will admit that is a toxic trait in a relationship for the OP that you're commenting about but it needs to take its course this is what relationship councilors are for not the internet

--Tal-- · 2023-09-12T00:52:19+00:00

yes, you are.

Appropriate_Fee_1867 · 2023-09-12T01:16:44+00:00

You are dumb as fuck

Title	I want to know if I am in the wrong.
Author	Yuki_Foxsoul
Upvotes	78
Comments	21
Date	September 11, 2023 9:29 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/16g80id/i_want_to_know_if_i_am_in_the_wrong/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/i-want-to-know-if-i-am-in-the-wrong.1231484 https://theredarchive.com/post/1231484

Comments