44, 4 kids. 176.8 lbs 20bf (scale)Been doing side bar lifting etc since last Feb. Seems like last couple months it don't matter anymore, back to where i started. Wife is bitchier than normal. Sex non existent. 1st 6 mo or so was awesome and that was 20 lbs ago. I had "I win" kind of feeling as things were happening in the bedroom I was told never would again, and it was easy. Get in shape and don't be the 5th child at home also be fun. I got to the point didn't much care if we screwed and got more into my hobbies and interests. Now a year and a half into it I don't even bother initiating. Wondering if focusing too much on me(while still being present at home) gives out a selfish type of vibe and is a turn off? Is this backwards movement normal?

FWIW, she did go off some happy pills a while back and is happy to have lost some weight. It's nice looking at a 100lb wife with a tight ass again, but she's miserable to be around. I've read the nervous and anxious housewives as well as oldest teenager in the house posts. After typing this I'm wondering if this is the issue. It does fit the timeline of severe attitude change.