So I was in Europe over summer, 4 countries: Spain, Italy, Greece,Russia. And I was using Tinder/Bumble and got matches but never went on any dates for time constraints and too busy with the tourism site seeing stuff. Anyways, I matched with several really attractive women (beautiful face, bikini beach body type, about my age late 20s) from each country. Myself, I’m a slightly above average fit looking dude. I was rated 7/10 on r/truerateme as a point of reference. So I’m definitely not “Chad” or anything. Anyways, we exchanged instagrams and were chatting for a while and I asked them all the same questions and they ALL gave me the SAME answers 🧐 which made me curious to think is this all a coincidence or am I missing something.

Me: what do you think about hot guys (male models)?

Them: not interested, we don’t want hot guys. We want good simple guys that care about us.

Me: are you actively searching for a guy now?

Them: No

Me: How long have you been single?

Them: 2+ years (or ~1.5 years)

Me: Would you like to go for a drink 🍷 sometime?

Them: If we could, but we’re too busy with work and don’t have time for even basic 8 hours sleep 😥 “we’re REALLY busy ALL the time and flooded with stress at work”

Now, keep in mind, I’m 90% certain NONE of them were prostitutes/ gold diggers or any girl with red flags. They were all naturally beautiful, NOT Instagram models with 1M plus followers. They had like 300-600 followers on instagram. Just down to earth sexy girls with no intention to “hurt” a man.

Now, I have a few theories myself on what is going on but I want to ask the community truly if they can figure it out. My first guess is that they’re waiting for Super Chad 🦸‍♂️/ Gigachad 🏋️‍♂️ to save the day and they won’t settle for even above average guys like me. Even if that means they have to live single for many years all alone… but then again of course if they had any basic experience with dating apps, they should have no trouble finding the super hot Chads in no time. So I ask: what is going on? Or is it that they’re simply too busy 🤷🏻