Fucking ugly (5s-6s) girls in your social circles: yea or nay?

Herdsengineers · 2018-02-08T17:28:19+00:00

personally, i don't shit where i eat. the few times i've messed around with girls in my regular social circle, it's always turned out weird later. i've also discovered most of them appear social and personable to the crowd, but more intimately they are fucked up and i end up finding out things I just don't want to know.

much easier to hunt outside your crew so when you need to next them, there's no bigger impact to your life. and there are plenty out there - abundance, man. don't fuck just any woman because you can. think bigger than that.

oldredder · 2018-02-08T17:57:50+00:00

No. Not worth the headache.

Too many girls out there to settle for the ones in your circle. Before you fuck a girl in your social circle, ask yourself would you want the others in your circle to know?

Because they will. Girls could never keep that kind of thing a secret even if they tried.

blackedoutfast · 2018-02-08T19:47:59+00:00

not a good idea. if you fuck the ugly girls it will look like you can only fuck ugly girls.

also if you fuck girls who are a solid part of your social circle, there's a very good chance it will end up ruining that social circle. unless you end up getting married to rthe chick, there will inevitably be some kind of breakup or falling out with drama, friends choosing sides, etc.

friendzone the girls who are an integral, regular part of the social circle and go after the girls who are on the periphery. the friends-of-friends, old roommates, coworkers, and other randoms that get brought to social circle events. if things go bad, it probably won't take down the whole social circle.

work on isolation to keep them from cockblocking you.

Popeman79 · 2018-02-08T18:03:04+00:00

No problem with fucking average girls, but pick them outside of your social circle. Don't fuck girls in your social circle, make friends out of them and they will introduce you to more friends, you will expand your social circle.

fnordsnord · 2018-02-08T21:22:26+00:00

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RedSkeller · 2018-02-08T17:45:47+00:00

Nay. I've known many guys, personally I'm quality over quantity, who bang the 5 or 6 slut in the social group and think it's no big deal - and in the grand scheme of things, it's not. To me it reaffirms their inner workings, frankly if you're the guy banging anything with a pulse I find it hard to respect you because I see it as a desperate act. Others may feel differently, but I'd rather have that higher ground than an easy lay everyone has had.

quicklogaccount · 2018-02-08T18:03:54+00:00

Let me tell you a story, again. I told it here a million times.

I have a quite hot childhood friend, not a chick you'd expect to belong in a nerd group such as ours. When I broke up with my ex she flirted the shit out of me, she kept saying she would introduce me to her coworkers, all 8+. I met one, but I was really sucking ass and never even made a move.
I wasn't confident though, I'd be cool with 5~6, and I met this one on a chat room and we exchanged some nudes. She was from another city, sex would happen whenever she came by. She came. I decided to ask my hot friend's opinion on her.
I showed her the chick's BEST picture, you'd place her on 7. She said she looked ugly (1) and was surprised I would pick her up (2). I told her I'd only do it because it was effortless (3). She expressed disapproval, and I never told her I actually did it.
I should have ended it at 1 and said "I suck at judging pictures, I'll trust you" and not ever let her get to 2. 3 was a terrible mistake, she uses girly lenses, so she thought "that chick is a chick so hot he sees her as an AF, he can't miss the chance of fucking her".

From that moment and on, she never said she'd introduce me her 8+ friends. She showed me 6s, she showed me one 7. Months later I picked up and plated an acquaintance of ours, "strong independent woman", gym rat, very admired by the chicks. She was a plate for five months and made some very complimentary comments about me. My hot friend lowered her opinion... ON HER. "She looks vulgar".

It's been over an year. I got a lot of pre selection, other close, childhood friends keep testing the waters, I'm on a relationship with a chick that causes women to look at me, smile and start conversations in social places, but I'm still unsure on whether my image is better than it started off with that one friend that knows I was willing to pick up the ugly gal.

tldr is, NO. Not by chance. No fucking way. You'll be the guy that picks up uggos.

Blackhawk2479 · 2018-02-08T18:10:52+00:00

Don’t bother.

Also I think your scale is a bit skewed - 5s and 6s would be average to reasonable IMO.

blister333 · 2018-02-08T19:34:11+00:00

Yea ugly is gotta be 4 or below. 5-6 is average to slightly above which can’t be ugly

oldredder · 2018-02-08T21:45:25+00:00

way way down. Everyone will assume you have no taste or you have to settle to get anything. They'll direct all the 5's your way and all the 7's and up away so you might never even meet them or just barely for a second. Your social group will re-shape who you get to meet to match what they see you doing.

walawalawa · 2018-02-08T22:03:03+00:00

A friend of mine who's married and quite well off bangs 5's-6's in our social circle.

I lost respect for him because the women are older and just plain...

It's like fishing with dynamite. I found I was also bottom feeding and banging the occasional 5 just for the sport of it.

This year I've decided I can do better.

LiveAFTSOV · 2018-02-09T01:28:27+00:00

5 and 6 is not ugly. 5 is ok and 6 is cute.

4 and below iss ugly fool.

billybobjoecarl · 2018-02-09T02:28:57+00:00

Depends what you want. Personally I have fucked many girls that I’d rate 4-7 in my social circles and the drama it starts is amazing. I notice that these girls are typically more bitchier and harder to get into at first than hotter women but once you get over that first hill it is all smooth sailing. Once you’ve got them hooked they’ll do literally anything and you can basically play chess with them. I’ve had cat fights happen, I’ve ruined friend circles, had threesomes occur, I mean these chicks will go to very far lengths to keep the shitty cock around but it does cause havoc on your image to actually sane friends and hotter women. Your call

[deleted] · 2018-05-23T21:29:03+00:00

i'm getting over this phase where i fuck everything that comes my way. it's just not Worth it, especially considered alot of ugly girls i've fucked sorta make me cringe about my sexual life. I can't look at it and be proud, yes, i had some good sex with some good girl but the bad overshadow the good and it doesnt make me feel better in the end. My suggestion is, move on. dont even bother if you got the chance to eat something you might regret later.

Merwebb · 2018-02-09T04:00:30+00:00

Not worth it. They will chase you and won't leave you alone the moment you want to phase them out. It will backfire.

Title	Fucking ugly (5s-6s) girls in your social circles: yea or nay?
Author	boredgod
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Date	February 8, 2018 5:21 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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