Really simple I'm talking to this girl and basically anytime I try something sexual she back offs and says no and stuff I back off and leave it at that. I usually never text her unless I want something anytime I do text she always says ok and does it. Now here's the thing say I dont text her for a week she'll send some nude pic and basically say in her own words "This is what you get for being nice to me". I'm an admitted asshole/mean spirited person and legit thinking about going to therapy for it so anytime I am nice it's on a rare occasion. Example saying goodnight to her which for some reason is a really big thing for her. What is with this girl? Am I just constantly failing/passing shit test without knowing it is this why she's so hot and cold. Lastly from what I know of her she has only 1 female friend and that's it and a few guy "friends". We're both in college from what I know about her she has a bare minimum social life but she's a good 8 I don't know how to process this. If you want to know more just ask