Making my mother a red pill woman

Unusual-Jellyfish-54 · 2023-11-24T17:06:07+00:00

The best way to influence someone into adopting your lifestyle and beliefs is to focus on improving your own life so they notice how genuinely happy and fulfilled you are when they are around you and maybe think that if it works so well for you, it might be worth trying. You probably won't be able to just talk her into it. I would apply the 'surrendered wife' perspective with this type of situation also... Just surrender and stop trying to 'make her' anything. She's your mother and it could be very diminishing to her that you try to tell her how to live her life. In the bible says to honor your father and mother so my advice would be to stop judging them, focus on yourself and pray for them so they will find happiness the way they see fit.

foxesgloves · 2023-11-24T17:25:15+00:00

I think the best thing you can do is shine in your own light, it gives other people the permission to shine in theirs

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-11-24T23:21:43+00:00

I'm probably closer to her age than yours, and I say let her be. RP is a strategy to gain the relationship we desire, with the Captain of our dreams. If she seems to have exactly that -- why does she have to change? Maybe her Captain likes the way she dresses and doesn't want her to show anything off. Is she warm? Is she nurturing? Is she his soft place to land? Good job, Mama!

undothatbutton · 2023-11-24T18:09:37+00:00

If you’re not willing to have the conversation like “Hey have you heard of RPW?” and explain the details behind it (which personally I wouldn’t be lol), then you can 1. Live your own life and let her just see firsthand how it benefits you. and 2. Encourage her by doing things together, like get your nails done together every few weeks, bring flowers over when you see her for dinner, etc.

I went through something similar with my own mom and homemaking… she was a Sahm when I was a child but she was definitely no homemaker! So as an adult I include her in my homemaking holiday activities for my own children. I don’t make any comments about my own childhood! I just let her see and feel the magic of a cozy home… and this year for the first time in my entire life, my mother decorated her porch for the holidays… :)

Sankdamoney · 2023-11-24T18:05:56+00:00

Buy her flowers.

AutoModerator · 2023-11-24T16:12:17+00:00

Title: Making my mother a red pill woman

Author VeeIsLost

Full text: I love my mother so much and I want her to better herself. She finally divorced my dad who never allowed her to be in her feminine or feel beautiful or spoiled.

She already started a new chapter in her life with a man who seems to be much better than my dad but she is still not feminine and not allowing herself to be.

What can I do to encourage her to finally relax a little in her life and heal her femininity. I tried suggesting changing her fashion style. She has a killer body and I want her to accentuate it instead of hide it. But what else can I do to help her stir her in the feminine direction.

I don’t want to push her or make the choices for her, I want her to want it, I jus want to suggest things.

Any advice highly appreciated ❤️

She is a woman in her mid 40s

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Jenneapolis · 2023-11-25T20:44:16+00:00

I think you should personally stay out of it but if you really care, just buy her a Laura Doyle book and tell her you read it and you thought it was useful. Leave it there.

Title	Making my mother a red pill woman
Author	VeeIsLost
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	November 24, 2023 4:12 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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