RPW: How much does it impact your world view?

Egoistchan · 2023-12-15T01:59:04+00:00

Pretty much it's just for my relationships. I'm not an overtly feminine woman, I've always been a tomboy, and I enjoy working and earning money. In fact I'm probably close to the "modern masculine woman" RP icons warn about lol.

HOWEVER. I have never, ever failed to attract men in spite of being a tomboy and liking masculine pursuits/hobbies. My SO is very masculine and I adore him for it. The key to happiness isn't living some contrived fantasy based on generalized differences between the sexes. It's about having values that transcend the gender polarity. I don't like frilly dresses or staying at home, but I do act with integrity, I show respect and gratitude, I work on improving myself and earning my partners continued admiration. Anybody can bake a cake and call it femininity, for me being a woman and redpill is simply striving for excellence and staying true to your values and commitments.

BudgetInteraction811 · 2023-12-15T04:35:14+00:00

I don’t take everything as gospel, I’m just here as a reminder to stay in my feminine in my future relationships. I have a tendency to be more dominant in relationships and it just doesn’t work out because it’s just not conducive to keeping a man attracted to me and happy.

Unusual-Jellyfish-54 · 2023-12-15T12:55:31+00:00

I use this as a way to connect with other countercultural people who also question many trends that modern times have imposed upon us women and men, which deprive us from living in harmony with what is naturally best for human beings, their health and development, and most importantly what is best for raising children. Because if you're single and childfree you do you, but I think that modern misconceptions about family, gender and what children need to grow healthily are primarily failing children, and therefore society's future at large. I think there are many people here that take red pill theory in a superficial way only like 'you must wear dresses and behave in this certain way so you get married to this certain kind of man' ... For me it's more about having certain core values and guidelines that we share and believe are most beneficial for individuals, families and make a better society at large. I don't think is good to judge the way other people live either, just try to live the best way we can according with what we believe to be true and make this movement grow without radicalizing it or making it into a mockery about gender stereotypes and pink for girls and blue for boys, so it can reach and help more people who may also feel lost in the sea of political correctness.

Edit: maybe it came across like I'm against gender stereotypes and I wanted to clarify that I'm not. I think gender stereotypes exist for a reason and it's because they are rooted in feminine and masculine natures. But we must be aware that no one is a walking stereotype of their gender and real women can have a wide range of perfectly valid traits and interests. But if they decide to form a family they just must compromise them with the hard to swallow truth of the requirements of family life, and not be told comforting lies like 'you can have it all, the career and the family and you can be happy, guilt free, healthy and empowered and your children will suck it up and grow up perfectly fine'

rosesonthefloor · 2023-12-15T23:35:18+00:00

Ultimately I find that the strategies here work well for me in my relationships and life, and they help me achieve my goals. I don’t think it’s the best choice for everyone necessarily, but it works for me.

The main thing about RPW for me is the focus on personal accountability, which I think is applicable in all areas of life. I cannot control anyone else’s behavior, only my own. So what can I do with that? And what will I do? How can I manage my behavior and expectations to have better interactions and overall better relationships with my partner, family, and people at work?

It’s led to me having a happy and fulfilling relationship where we don’t compete with each other and support each other endlessly, a successful and rewarding career where I am able to manage people well and have fostered a great reputation, and better and healthier relationships with my parents.

So in a sense I guess it does factor into my worldview, but less in a “submit to my man” way, and more “submission/femininity/accountability as strategy” way.

AutoModerator · 2023-12-15T00:58:48+00:00

Your above submission to /r/RedPillWomen has been removed, because you have a new account with little karma. Please message moderators (bottom of the sidebar above "moderators" box) to be approved, or lurk and contribute more in discussion before posting a new submission.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

Title	RPW: How much does it impact your world view?
Author	Ok_Praline_2819
Upvotes	17
Comments	10
Date	December 15, 2023 12:58 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/18inse8/rpw_how_much_does_it_impact_your_world_view/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/rpw-how-much-does-it-impact-your-world-view.1240801 https://theredarchive.com/post/1240801

Comments