LTR refusing sex

IronJohnKwando · 2018-02-17T03:55:43+00:00

need more context.

Usually would just say withdraw attention without being butt hurt. Grab a book, do dishes, do something that needs to get done or play a game or some shit. Text a friend. Be unphased.

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-02-17T05:47:12+00:00

As always, dread.

Pork_Sword3 · 2018-02-17T04:26:00+00:00

Not enough information. Don’t take it seriously this time, could be any reason she doesnt want sex/refuses sex. Come back when she’s refused to have sex with you for a week, that’s when there could be a problem.

3x8-12 · 2018-02-17T04:22:30+00:00

How’d you escalate?

128bitworm · 2018-02-17T05:51:38+00:00

Make like nothing has happened. Short, crisp responses. No anger. Just indifference. Do not suggest or respond to suggestions of sex or intimacy. DNGAF. Let her work it out for herself.

DominantLucifer · 2018-02-17T18:30:43+00:00

Chill. You had sex once already today. Be a grown up and realize that nobody is in the mood all the time.

If rejection becomes constant though - apply dread. Plenty of threads about dread here already. Have a field day with it.

chazthundergut · 2018-02-17T21:24:37+00:00

Grab your gym bag and go get an extra workout in. You are getting soft.

Don't be butthurt about it or seem emotionally reactive at all. Her refusing sex is her loss, not yours. But at the same time, you need to get your edge back.

M23W0OH7FV2t · 2018-02-17T10:23:11+00:00

Get sex somewhere else.

BP'd me happened to date a girl in SLAA (Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous -- yes, it's a thing). The morning after a night of hot sex, she got up early and started again, I rolled over and told her to go back to bed (irrespective of what time it is, when I first get up is not the time to have sex with me). She ended up going to a sponsor's place, having sex with him, coming back, telling me, and got angry that I wasn't pissed off about it (wtf?).

GayLubeOil · 2018-02-17T04:08:00+00:00

Women are like Mexicans they have a lot of reasons for not working. Maybe the penis receiver was feeling sick or bad or whatever or maybe she's mining you for drama? We have no context so who knows?

nabosch · 2018-02-17T22:38:15+00:00

If it’s the first time no big deal, every once and awhile people aren’t in the mood for it. Brush it off as nothing and go do something else.

Above all don’t act butt hurt as that will only make her realize that sex is in her control

Title	LTR refusing sex
Author	ThatOneDrunkUncle
Upvotes	4
Comments	42
Date	February 17, 2018 3:42 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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