I take too long to become attracted to girls. How do I fix this?

[deleted] · 2018-02-18T08:01:02+00:00

It sounds like you prefer women that have a brain, but assume most of them don't. But then you are surprised when you find out that the ones you actually talk to have a brain after all.

Just talk to more women. Develop abundance mentality.

MikeAlphaGolf · 2018-02-18T10:11:55+00:00

How many of the hot girls have you actually fucked? Don’t assume the better looking girls will be less intelligent. That’s wrong.

Are you sure you’re not hamstering away your inability to get the girls you really want? Always strive for better. I’d bet you are settling.

redhawkes · 2018-02-18T10:38:26+00:00

Don't you have male friends to talk to?

With chicks, you just have fun, that's it, or if you wanna dry her up, talk about history, politics, 'deep' conversations.

It look like sour grapes. You're projecting unicorn traits, understand that their modus operandi is emotions, not logic.

This may sound beta or blue pilled but I’d rather date and fuck girls that I find slightly less attractive (5-7) but can hold a good conversation over a 9 or 10 that bores the hell out of me.

Yea, hamster, hamster.

However by the time I become attracted its usually too late and they’ve either friend zoned me or moved on.

This is cos you put yourself as orbiter, not showing your sexual intentions, hence the reaction. Don't step on your own dick.

writewhereileftoff · 2018-02-18T10:31:38+00:00

If you want stimulating convos talk to other like minded people. Don't expect deep convos when you yourself are acting on your primal urges to reproduce. Attraction is raw and animalistic. No intelligence needed. Don't kid yourself wishing you could have a complex discussion with your wife/girlfriend about things that interest you. Women don't have the same interests as men. And that's perfectly okay. Problem is you're chasing unicorns and expecting deep intellectual convos when in reality it's just a mental block preventing you from slaying that poon. Again do not expect deep convos from hot women, the world is very different for them. You'll be pleasantly surprised when they can hold a convo but when they dont...at least you got to smash.

moontripper1246 · 2018-02-18T08:04:59+00:00

Become stupid. Enjoy feeling your cock get hard while watching a hot girls tits bounce in front of you.

For real tho, not a problem if you don't think it's a problem. everyone has a different fetish, this might actually just be a standard of yours. That being said, you could be putting up a barrier for no good reason (ie. I'm afraid to escalate sexually, so I find stimulating conversation more interesting, hot girls rarely have stimulating conversation [b/c they have tits and communicate emotionally not logically] and I have to do more work which I don't know how to do, I must like uglier girls who know how to carry my dead weight for me but still fail to pull the trigger so what do?)

haha am i right or am i right?

TehJimmyy · 2018-02-18T20:36:44+00:00

What degree are you studying OP ?

I_am_Fig · 2018-02-18T08:39:22+00:00

Sounds like you want more than a a hot girl. Someone you can actually have a conversation with about things that interest you.

Go for whatever type of girl you want dude it's all preference.

Can never said I had this problem before, I will say that I won't date an airhead but getting attracted to them is no problem for me.

jay_jay_man · 2018-02-18T14:14:21+00:00

This may sound beta or blue pilled but I’d rather date and fuck girls that I find slightly less attractive (5-7) but can hold a good conversation over a 9 or 10 that bores the hell out of me.

It's not bluepill to want a connection with a girl. Connection makes the sex much better.

I'm not sure you and I have the same definition of what attraction is, can you tell me what attraction means to you?

Title	I take too long to become attracted to girls. How do I fix this?
Author	Schniattle
Upvotes	17
Comments	22
Date	February 18, 2018 7:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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