After one FINAL stupid argument tonight about how " she's not getting enough out of the relationship & is unsatisfied" with the Status quo while being a quite able bodied Stay at Home Mom of in school (7 & 8 year old) children. I called it, I looked the woman I've been married to in the face and flat out said IM DONE. Her response was both freeing and concerning, " You'll get your papers"...

I ain't looking for someone to bullshit me into the lie of " everything is gonna be fine/perfect." I'm just curious if there really is light at the end of the tunnel and how Long that tunnel is. We've put up with one another for well over a year. I can almost say for certain that all we've done is go through the grieving process for the most part of being absent from one another. Like a come to Jesus phase if you will. So for those of you that have made it through the fray, how is it ?