Women treat male survivors of abuse like trash. They say the right things but you are seen as an emasculated man by most.

eldred2 · 2024-01-02T19:33:13+00:00

If they acknowledge male victims they would have to give up their claim that it's gendered.

WildAsOrange · 2024-01-02T18:19:22+00:00

I feel you man.

A few years ago I went to the ER with laceration on my skull and a concussion that was a result of my now ex-gf throwing a glass bottle at me during a fight.

When the doctor that was stitching me up asked what happened I told him that my gf is abusive, he just said "she must've had her reasons".

I asked if he could call the police because I left my phone at home where she was, he told me to shut up and stop wasting people's time.

A similar thing happened at the police station when I went there the next day. An officer who was taking my report told me to rethink my next words because they have to believe a woman's word unless presented with proof beyond any doubt.

So yeah, male's abuse is often overlooked and mocked as something silly.

skllyskullstyle · 2024-01-02T22:23:21+00:00

I've been abused, bullied, and ridiculed by some women, and had a friend have similar experience but in the black community. If you tried to explain this from experience and look for justice, you'll just get more abuse to be piled on. Yes you're right.

What you said is nothing new yet true. Women abusing men is normalized and had been so for thousands of years.

xtrememax12 · 2024-01-02T22:40:45+00:00

I was banned on reddit for talking about my sexual assault

Alarmed-Rent-5384 · 2024-01-02T19:41:38+00:00

Most men i have meet tell me very traumatic thing that they have had happen to them and its terrible. Thing is if i ask them if they have gotten help its mostly or always a no they just got over it but some thing you cant get over alone… i wish more men would be told that therapy or by people around them that hey you can talk about it and it helps.

Farseer_Uthiliesh · 2024-01-03T03:07:51+00:00

Me: I was sexually assaulted by a female colleague. She got me drunk and made multiple attempts to sleep with me one night. My ex: How dare you. Women have it worse and you need to shut up.

Roleandah · 2024-01-03T12:40:57+00:00

These are all traps and completely illegitimate.

"Get therapy" "Talk about your feelings"

And anything along those lines is nothing but a campaign to obtain information about you to be used against you or room for you to be told what you should and shouldn't do.

It's fucked that men don't a Tually have access to these things because these things simply don't work for men.

Therapy will absolutely be used against your best interests. Sharing your feelings of loneliness and most everything else will be used against you.

And yes, anything that indicates you ever had a bad day, feelings, were abused and feel bad about it, trauma, those will all be used against you.

At very best youll be seen as not fit to lead and therefore undesirable. The desire fire absolutely dies if you are a traumatized man.

solar-garlic1776 · 2024-01-03T20:57:49+00:00

Seen as emasculated because they know we cannot do anything back. I'm not advocating for violence but you put your hands on me and I'm not responsible for the consequences

HeatScissors003 · 2024-01-02T22:28:05+00:00

That’s why victim blaming is wrong.

Additional_Insect_44 · 2024-01-03T09:50:13+00:00

I don't give two cents if they feel like that I'll speak about it.

Alarming_Draw · 2024-01-03T20:38:39+00:00

You and I should team up-I made a similar post getting similar upvotes on the same issue, though I am older, and it was about helplines and forums claiming to be there to help people.

Add my experience to yours and it seems helplines, forums, teachers, classmates, parishes are now fully indoctrinated into man hating feminism, and blame all men, all the time, no matter what.

rippierippo · 2024-01-04T14:00:10+00:00

I know one of the man. He was destroyed psychologically. He got disabled due to self-harm. Women abuse differently. They target your psyche and induce you to do self-harm. They seem to target your emotions and provoke you into violence and then they play victim card. Slowly but surely you get emasculated because you are unable to defend yourself. If you are too weak, women abuse you harder. Something in them triggers them to abuse weak and weaker men harder even physically. My only advice is, stay away from demonic women that appear as nice and charming but full of psychopathic tendencies. If you see a red flag, stop and run away. Marriage itself has become slavery for men due to legal liability and financial liability. Add on top of that - emotional and psychological abuse. You are toast.

Title	Women treat male survivors of abuse like trash. They say the right things but you are seen as an emasculated man by most.
Author	Acousmetre78
Upvotes	278
Comments	44
Date	January 2, 2024 5:40 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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