Met a girl at a party in December. She was talking about Capitalism being evil, I disagreed with her. We ended up talking about this all night. When the whole group went out, she sat with me the entire time at the bar and ignored everyone else. We made out. One of my friends was shit-faced, 3 of us got in taxi to get him home. Made out more in taxi with my friend basically drooling on me. She almost had to help me carry him up his stairs he was so wasted.

Walked her home. Made out more. Did not let me come up though I said I wanted to. Got her number.

Tried to see her before winter break, she's a student. Didn't, she was busy with finals. She went to Europe for a month (she is Swedish and Irish, but moved to the U.S. at 10)

We were supposed to go on a date. She wanted to pick the place. I let her. She said she "doesn't do gender norms," I said fine I like that. Night of date I had a lot of work, told her I need to push date back an hour. She said that probably works. I finish quickly and say I can meet up at original time. She's already out in Manhattan with friends (we both live in Brooklyn) and is drunk.

So we reschedule at some point for 2 weeks later, after she didn't answer me right away. We get drunk. I ask if she wants to make out. She says no. Walk her home, again ask if she wants to make out. She says we should be "drinking buddies"

2nd "hang out." She comes and meets me at the bar next to my office. We get drunk. Another girl wants me to come over and fuck her. I tell her this. I tell her again I want to make out with her, but that another girl just invited me over to her place. She declines the make-out, I leave to go fuck the other girl. She texts me "pussy before pals"

3rd "hang-out." I meet her outside her place and we go to a bar near her place. We get VERY drunk. Drink there from 9 pm to 3 am. She invites me back to her place. "No funny business" she says. We drink a bottle of wine, smoke cigarettes with her till 5:30 am. We doze off cuddling on the couch with me nibbling on her ear. (I think maybe this is where I should have made a stronger move? She says I can stay over, but "no funny business" again. I'm exhausted and we go to sleep.

We wake up early. Order breakfast, hang out till about noon and then she has to meet up with a female friend for lunch.

So, advice, suggestions, tell me what I did wrong?

During the third "hangout" she did mention she was fucking another dude. I told her he was probably more of an asshole than I was, and I should treat her more like shit so she would bang me. She claimed he "treats her great when they are together." She also read me a love-letter some dude wrote her over one year ago that she had a one-night stand with. I had told her previously I didn't want to hear about other guys, after she had started talking about a cute guy she talked to at the bar after I left the 2nd "hang out"

I also texted her we shouldn't hang out anymore, and sent her a couple explicit texts which she did not like. ("I want to give you orgasms", "I want to shove my cock down your throat")

Edits: clarity, grammar, etc.