Plate sends long text

Whisper · 2018-02-20T04:47:29+00:00

"Feelings aren't out of the question, you know."

Dangle bait, get her over there, smash.

Repeat several times, then use

"You know we're just going to end up in each others' arms again"

The next time. Smash some more, then wait for either resignation, or plate breakage.

Just because commitment is out of the question doesn't mean don't imply it as bait.

redpilledjoe · 2018-02-20T04:17:22+00:00

"come over let's figure it out"

then fuck like rabbits and send her home

ronmexico8 · 2018-02-20T03:33:42+00:00

This one has run its course. Next. Respond "Ok." If she wants to hang out again, you look for her to reach out in several days with an apology.

Whatever lessons are to be learned depend on the context - how long she's been a plate, how you did with care, etc.

Savagesymfonik · 2018-02-20T05:10:14+00:00

"You can't...." She can't tell you what you can and can't do. You're a grown adult. Do what you want.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-02-20T11:19:46+00:00

Is there a question?

Plates fall and break. That's what she's doing.

walawalawa · 2018-02-20T13:55:14+00:00

I got two of these types of messages, very similarly worded.

In one case I ignored it and the plate then sent a follow up blasting me, then blocked/deleted me.

The second one tried something a bit more sneaky. She texted me to meet up. I proposed a time and place. She then said she'd get back to me if her bf wasn't visiting.

I said 'k'. Left it. A week later she wrote back asking me if i wanted to meet up for Valentine's Day as "Friends" and no sex blah blah blah.

i said no, we aren't friends. I see you as a woman not a friend.

Her response: "Why can't you love me?"

I replied that i was a free spirit and that was basically the best i could offer. Then i made plans with another plate.

I think plates do this when they develop feelings and want more.

The sidebar has some good insights into how to handle "the talk".

But ultimately if you get a text like this...don't response. Let her hamster burn itself out. She's basically made her mind up. Even if you did offer to commit, she'd never trust you anyway.

Be the one that got away.

tazih · 2018-02-20T04:13:48+00:00

Do as the other comments said or double down. Tell the hoe you love her and keep smashing till she finds out you lied.

Frog boiling in water if you're familiar with that saying.

Title	Plate sends long text
Author	CashMeOnRedditDD
Upvotes	19
Comments	26
Date	February 20, 2018 3:29 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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