We've agreed to stop couples therapy and instead switch to individual.

At our last session, we both reviewed the two ywqr progress, ups downs and especially our weaknesses .

We've agreed to pause divorce , and finally seriously work on those aspects . And re visit divorce later . We are fully aware this likley won't work, and are both quite afraid of change, being alone, and walking away . She is agreeable to amending my.prenup , so that she keeps nothing and we each keep our marital debt.

She wants a majority of the tax return which historically has been about 9k. She makes about 40k I make 90k Iknow most of its mine, and I asked for 1k$ for my needed medical debt.

I know comparatively that seems great yet I'd still be angry over it, I still have empntial growth to do

Is this just a phase in divorce?