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Competitive-Bill-612 · 2022-10-12T10:31:18+00:00

You miss a 100% of the shots you don’t take.

Instead of fearing rejections you should fear the potential of the unknown. Would she have said yes to going a date with you? Having fun with you? You’d never know if u never tried.

Normalising rejection is a must. The general perception of fear id get is if the women, her friends or general public would think. But the more u do it the more u realise people generally dont give a shit. Even if they do, what are the odds you’d bump into them again?

Other things id work on is having masculine energy which u can get do that later with some simple research on yt or if youd like feel free to dm me. Focus on overcoming the fear of rejection first.

All the best.

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-10-12T05:24:19+00:00

ok look. rejection happens. i'm not compatible with a lot of people. in my last 5 OLD dates, i rejected 2 of them after the first date because i felt we weren't compatible. 1 rejected me. 2 were followed up. out of 5 women where we had mutual attraction, 2 got to a second date. it's not a big deal.

of my 4 long term (> 2 years) relationships they failed due to life circumstances happening, me being a dickhead, me not listening and imposing my values on others, and complex interpersonal issues.

'rejection' isn't personal. it happens a lot. you just didn't fit. don't worry about it.

sorry if this doesn't make sense yet, but you should really study what your mate showed you.

FaroukTheNoob · 2022-10-12T10:24:43+00:00

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bobyd · 2022-10-12T10:09:12+00:00

Is it weird if I ask to see the conversation? I also struggle with what you mention a d thought it might help

rcoo2417 · 2022-10-12T05:17:38+00:00

Meditate, do some positive affirmations in the mirror, go the gym, buy better clothes, and just say you feel. If you think a girl is fine af let her know

artofmajic · 2022-10-12T11:40:08+00:00

I feel the same way so I want to know what your friend actually said in the dms

2022-10-12T16:52:15+00:00

Easy. Like the Nike motto; just do it! Stay completely detached from the outcome and you won’t feel rejected. You feel empowered.

booniedog1 · 2022-10-13T05:00:58+00:00

I have more questions than answers here. Do you know this girl or is she random? What did the conversation look like? How old are you?

grindforthegold · 2022-10-13T15:36:34+00:00

meh i’m not passive anymore and still constantly get rejected. but i don’t have regret anymore and that’s nice

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Date	October 12, 2022 5:11 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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