TLDR at the bottom, big read, cbf doing one here.

So i made a post a while ago regarding how easy talking to women is, well a few days after that post i did a bulged disk on my L4 L5 lumber and have being out of action for over 4 weeks, besides struggling at work and coming home to lay down every arvo, my options to talk to women were bassicly 0. their was a hottie milf working at the DR's who i coincidentally over heard complaining to the other receptionist about how hard single mum life is, although i was in to much pain to muster up a convo.

so que this weekend when ive being feeling a tonne better and decided to head out last night. im in aus so it was a Saturday night. I'm also new to an area and only have a few work mates who weren't up to heading out, so my only option was to go solo.

got to the pub at 5pm, had a few beers, sat at a few tables alone and was at peace. i eventually gave in and had a slap on the pokies, i don't recommend doing this, as A, you will always loose, and B, gambling is degenerate. anyway i was on the brickies laptop for about 30mins when i had enough and walked back out into the main bar area to grab a drink, i see an absolute hottie, in my books a strong 7.9 to 8/10 sitting at a table alone, i was in line for a good 15mins waiting and keeping an eye on her to see if someone would join her, i get my drink and shes still alone on her phone.

fuck it, i walk up and say, "hey how you doing? you waiting for someone?" she looked shocked and said "no im not" ok perfect i say and ask to sit. what followed was 5 hours of talking, dancing, grinding, hugging and kissing.

found out were are similar, married for almost the same time, single for the same time, both use OLD with very little success, but one thing that struck me was, she was very open about guys approaching, and its bassicly non existent, she said in her 17 months of her being Single, i am the 1st person to approach her and she honestly was blown away at my confidence. she did say guys will come up but never escalate, i knew at that point i had a window to start to close so i kept dropping little hints.

one that she brought up today, (we went out for brunch but im not going into anymore details) was when i said i told the DJ to turn the music up so she has to lean in closer to talk to me till shes that close ill end up kissing her, she said she loved that, i was also very respectful and seeking consent which she thought was non existent from dudes.

she did ask me what my reaction would have being if she said she was wating for someone, i said That i would have said, well all the best and have a goodnight. moral of the story is she wasn't and i took a shot, and i implore all dudes, or chicks for that matter to just shoot your shot. i am a firm believer of fate and what ever happens big or small its fate, do i see a long term with this girl, i couldn't say, i do see me having fun with her and at the very least creating a good friendship which wouldn't have happened if i didn't approach.

TLDR, went out solo and hit up a chick at a table by her self, ended up having a fantastic night and saw her again today and will catch up in the future.

TLDR 2, moved to the boarder of nsw and qld, if any fellas are local and looking for a wingman, hit me up.