Ok first off people are quick to say this stuff only works if you’re tall and handsome, but I’d say the bars a little lower than these people think. I think as long as you’re not a bum or an outcast seduction’s all you need. I’m 5’8, skinny, have an average face and I’m not very popular, but I take care of myself and I don’t really get nervous talking to girls, which was a skill acquired by doing it more.

Secondly I know these girls from class, I’ve had interactions with them prior we are familiar with each other. I don’t just do this stuff to strangers.

Ok I think complimenting really does work, it doesn’t even have to be good compliments you can say the most basic shit.

“You look beautiful today, (her name)” “Thank you, no one ever says that to me” “I find that hard to believe”

After that she started being around me more, looking at me more, and then her friend told me she likes me. I don’t know why but I always get positive reactions when I call someone by their name, as simple as that is.

“You have a very cute face” “Thanks” (giggles)

This one also resulted in me getting a lot of her attention.

I’ve also said things like “I’m lucky to have you” but I think stuff like that can be overdone so I keep it rare.

Romantic shit. A lot of guys probably don’t even do it cuz they think it’s corny but girls seem to really like it. I’ve given my coat when it’s cold, bought a girl food, held doors open, and even went in to kiss the hand of my friend’s sister when he friend was introducing us. I stopped and laughed halfway through of course. All of these were received pretty well.

Funny stuff. I don’t think you should try to be funny, I think you should just try to be relaxed and have a good time and it will come naturally.

“Call me anything just don’t call me late for dinner” (laughs) “That was good I like that”

“I’m not very smart. In fact I’m so dense my schwartzchild radius trumps Jupiter in size” (stupid astronomy joke after she said she liked astronomy) (laughs) “what does that even mean”

And when a girl didn’t like my haircut “you’re just mad you can’t pull it” (smiling) “shut up”

so yeah