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[–]CometAzur42069 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your post on how women dont respect you is being rejected (or in the latter case, she didn’t give you a snapchat but an instagram).
So you’re basically saying you dont feel respect because people don’t do what you want? Why should anyone respect someone who thinks like that?
The lack of respect is all in your head btw. Sounds like they respect you fine, that doesnt mean you get to stick your dick in them. Relax, keep going. Stop letting minor irrelevant defeats bother you.
[–]Delicatestatesmen 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Hello Op,
Let me start by saying your writing is great.
I think that playing pussy detective is great but being too logical will mess u up. Also who gives a fuk why she did etc or gave number to one guy over another. Girls choose dumb fuks all the time. If she isn’t jumping to know you its her lost. Change mindset!
Especially with women. They are emotional not logical and especially if it comes to dating or a relationship.
Example: you can have a great conversation but another guy comes along and says something emotional or makes them emotional he will win 9 times out of 10.
2.) Your friend getting a number doesn’t mean shit. If getting a number meant anything I would tell you. Many don’t amount to anything.
3.) Game girls that your having better luck with, but mix in a few you don’t. I would say from my 20’s-mid 30’s I only really got exotic women never blonde or white girls. Then in mid 30’s I started fuking many blondes its just how things go.
4.) Don’t ask for girls number or instagram or snap. Instead ask them to grab a drink with you sometime or ask if they would like to meetup later or another time first. Too many guys have convo with girls and don’t transfer to outside of venue meetup convo before hard closing for number.
Here is how it should go: Hello my name is peter whats your name?
Her: Milana
You: Thats a pretty unique name blah blah, so you wanna grab a drank next week sometime I can show you some cool art..?
Wait to see what she says.. sure I love art etc here is my number. Or she says Im busy next week.( that means no bro) dont ask for number move on.
You should gauge her interest by placing her emotionally… in places with just you and her if she truly likes you she will say lets meet up. Girls will meetup with you for a fun day over a stale number close. Build a connection first then try to parlay it into a future meetup is best.
Example I am going to hit up the mall tomorrow need to buy some shoes, you around you can join me.. She will say oh yeah what kind of shoes and you will say blah blah.. parlay that into a number swap I guess or wait for her to offer her number..
How most guys do it… blah blah blah can I have your number?( number only works out if she looks your physical looks because your other attributes were lacking and shit).. she doesn’t have anything to go on.
[–]HispanicPede 3 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for the response, you really hit it on some points. However, can you elaborate on #3?
[–]Delicatestatesmen 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
3.) Sure I started documenting the types of girls that were more open to me and that I had better luck with. I would spend my time on these types because you want to get control of 1.) your time and 2.) amount of rejection.
You mix in a few harder types or types you don’t have as much luck with to sharpen your skills and challenge yourself.
You need to develop a system that works for you. Now that doesn’t mean if all you get is the heavy set girl know-one wants thats all you should go for. It just means develop your type. I remember girls asking me what my type was I would think long and hard then I realized I did have a type the universe provided me with the type it saw as best for me less resistance.
Also venues are important, if your Mexican at a country dance hall hmmm seems like that maybe an issue with Latinas they seem to be placing themselves in a white type of field.
Women place themselves in places they want to attract that type of man. You need to understand these dynamics.
If u go to a hip hop club u going to meet ghetto girls that love the hustler type of dude. If your not that your going to get an abundant amount of rejection.
My type of women: I figured out was:
Exotic- mixed race- higher on the looks and hygiene scale. Career orientated- Maybe a bit dark or serious personality.
[–]HispanicPede 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
You are right!
[–]Delicatestatesmen 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Once you figure out your type find the spots where they go.
My type I find at high end rooftop bars in multi cultural areas or older concert venues..
[–]refreshingface 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow this was really insightful, especially the 4th/5th paragraph
[–]5_7pickup 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to meet more women first. If you dont want to do OLD then you need to meet women IRL. Its called cold approach. Cold approach girls on campus. Go to parties. Join a frat. College is legit the easiest environment to meet hot girls. If youre struggling now, wait til you enter your professional life where your coworkers are all 10-20 years older with kids.
[–]HispanicPede2 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I am already in a fraternity. I am a junior looking for internships; luckily, I landed some supply chain internship interviews with Gap and Texas Instruments. I am starting to finish my work outside on campus because I realize that I finish my work faster than doing it at my place. I will probably begin to meet more people by doing that.
[–]ice_man085 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am way older than you so please excuse my ignorance, but I do not get the gist of the snapchap/instagram "controversy. Why did the girl disrespect you with giving you her instagram instead of her snapchat?
You really sound like a spoiled chat that does not know what true disrespect is. Not getting what you want is not disrespecting you.
You should learn to respect yourself first and try to deal with rejection with dignity.
[–]zapadz 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7JDi1xWeAGA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S05r46Y_pY8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnhWiq3E7eI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85jQpsxhMCc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXehvygXNEc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twTrrGiRXtY
[–]atomant88 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you get respect by showing respect, invest in your manners
[–]CocoBabeinNYC 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You get women to respect you by first respecting yourself.
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