I have a second date scheduled this weekend with a girl. And I'm putting a lot of my pressure on myself to make it something fun but now I'm sitting here thinking, why the fuck am I stressing myself out? She clearly seems to like me, so if she likes me, and she's easy going, it should be pretty simple to plan a second date. I guess I have anxiety that I won't plan something fun, even though the fun we had between ourselves was just fucking around really.

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Our 1st date was at a nice cocktail bar, then we went on a walk to the brooklyn bridge and got ice cream. She asked to hold my hand and kiss her cheek. I just don't want the second date to seem so "similar" but again, if she's into me then spending time together should be fine no? I was planning on taking her to a interactive museum and then a park afterwards - there's also a few restaurants and bars nearby. Our first date we walked around for like 3 hours and that was tons of fun, no pressure and we were just laughing the entire time. Again, I'd be okay doing that again for a second date. Third date I'd prolly go outside the city(NYC).

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I'm in no rush for sex, I don't think she would anyways, I'm more concerned on finding and forming a connection and better sex comes from patience IMO. TBH, that's always been my style even back in the day when I was more casual I never was really flirty or sexual I was just myself and befriended girls and girls always felt really comfortable and brought up sex lol or were down when I straight up asked lmao.

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I guess I'm asking if I'm being too much and maybe should calm the fuck down and just trust myself? my biggest flaw is I have anxiety, which despite my post, I hide it REALLY well in person, but still, I have fucking anxiety... I'd prob ask about a third date towards the end of the second, assuming it goes well(which it should).

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Thanks.