So many questions on here can be answered with just the ABCs of game. I'm gonna rant about this below. But first let me outline the ABCs. The three aspects of game I've always followed. If you know the ABCs and have invested in all of the ABCs you're gonna have a hard time not being successful. Usually when someone fails at game its because they've neglected one of the ABCs. So what are they?

A is for Ability. Your ability to play the game. Do you understand what game is? when to approach? when to escalate with consent? how to build intimacy? How to signal intent? what a first date should be? How to handle scheduling? Why texting sucks? This is the most 'pure' and technical aspect of game. This is real game. Even if your Body and Charisma are on point if you dont know how to sell yourself you're gonna fizzle.

B is for Body. This is all exterior aspects of yourself. Hygiene, fashion, fitness, style, swagger, body language. This is often the easiest way to improve yourself. Get a haircut, invest in your wardrobe and some cologne. Get a tan, hit the gym, tighten up your diet. Why is it rated equally alongside Ability and Charisma? because people are shallow. They just are. Your appearance matters. Don't neglect it. Maximize what you have. Minimize what you don't have.

C is for Charisma. This is your speaking ability. Are you funny? Are you charming? Are you interesting? Do you know how to turn someone on verbally? Do you know how to incite passionate conversation? This is probably the hardest of the ABCs to learn. But there remain a lot of good resources out there. Don't neglect it! And of course knowing what NOT to say can also be very important.

So that's it ABC. Now go and rate yourself on each out of 10. Add it up. Whats your score out of 30? Use that as a template. Use it to identify your weaknesses and where you need to focus your energy. A low score in one area can be made up for in other areas. But all are important. Don't neglect any of the ABCs.

This post isnt about explaining each ABC in detail. its just a guide. A general overview. Many of you are not even realizing what the aspects of game are. So of course youre not learning game properly. You think its all about Ability, or Body, or Charisma. When really its all 3. If you truly feel your 'Body' is maxed but youre still not having success then go and work on your Ability and Charisma. Thats usually what i see here. Posts of people thinking they can coast on Body with no Charisma and no Ability. Ability seems to be the most neglected! Read the wiki! Learn the 4 phases of a seduction. Execute them! Follow the template. Play the numbers game. If you do that you'll find success. But with an upgraded B and C your success will come much easier.

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And now a rant; It's very frustrating to see so many posts here that break rule 7. No beginner topics! my response to so many of these posts is 'did you check your ABCs?' and so many people have no idea what I'm talking about. Don't ask questions without doing basic research guys! We're not gonna write you a whole essay on game under every post. There are so many great free resources on here (the wiki and by searching the sub) and elsewhere online too. Invest in your own success. Do some legwork. Learn the basics. Then if you still have questions ask away. But at least learn your ABCs first so you dont flood the group with the same rookie questions over and over. End of rant.