How bad is it if you don’t really do typical masculine activities or hobbies in your life?

lurchmasterflex · 2018-03-06T18:35:28+00:00

First of all you're ahead of the game being 6'5"

Fucking lift. God if I was 6'5" I would be over 300lbs. Put as much size on as you can.

I have a buddy who's also that tall and its like easy mode for him now. He's only in decent shape today and engaged to an NFL cheerleader. Fuck all the other shit do what you enjoy but lifting is one thing that needs to be included in your routine.

quicklogaccount · 2018-03-06T18:50:00+00:00

Nope. You're good to go, no need to look into changing the stuff you enjoy.

I don’t drink alcohol and smoke

Not an issue, at all.
Inviting the chick for drinks is an easy excuse, then again it's just easy because it's a classic one. Been with tinderellas that don't drink and went out for ice cream.

I’m tall, 6’5 but very skinny with belly fat. So I don’t have a big frame. Hopefully that changes.

"Frame" is used here meaning something else, but either way, that'll change. You don't have to wait until it changes to open women though, just don't forfeit the low hanging fruits. Dress well, keep your hair and beard trimmed. Fix posture if it's an issue.

don’t have any tattoos nor do I care to get some.

Not an issue, it's more about your style. On the rare occasions in which I've been questioned about them I just said "I'll make one as soon as I find something cool and permanent enough for me. I dig them but I'm not going to tumblr to get ideas."

I’m not into sports. Not into football or soccer or anything.

You might want to look into it a few minutes a week to have easy conversation with guys.

I’ve never been in a fight and I think I will get my ass beat if I ever do. Point being, I suck at fighting.

No issue, but do train something if for any reason you think it emasculates or worsens you somehow.

I’m not the type of guy that has women around him. Makes me feel really unmanly. Not sure how to fix this. Women are attracted to men with lots of options. What do you do when you have 0?

Lots of options there. There are a lot of attractive styles you might want to have that fit all the stuff that you like or dislike, and a lot of game strategies you might want to employ with each of them. Walking around surrounded by chicks is ONE strategy, that fits some styles better than others.

I don’t go out clubbing nor do I go to concerts. It’s not my thing, plus, I really can’t due to my tinnitus. I can’t go to loud places.

Shame, concerts are fun as fuck.
Clubs and concerts are "target rich environments", places with more chicks than you can open in one night, and clubs have the advantage of being full of "willing" chicks.
They're not the only places you can run game at though. They're just traditional places to game at, but it doesn't mean they're better for that.

Is it bad if you don’t do manly thing such as these?

Nope. You look a bit too focused on chicks, so I'd employ this path if I were you:

Read about game and PUA, because you're striking a bit clueless. You strike as clueless. Mystery Method is a must read and you also must read something else;
Get some good looking and fitting clothing if you don't owe any already;
Get some good pics, and start on Tinder or apps. Don't bother a lot about excessive texting, just try to stick with some game strategy you read about. You'll be just looking into getting some successes to gain some momentum;
Game wherever and however you want.

BeeBopJoe · 2018-03-06T18:27:06+00:00

Nobody cares, just be productive and have goals, work on your SMV. If your overall a lazy asshole then yeah its bad, but as long as you have a mission you should be fine.

danoranika · 2018-03-06T19:01:59+00:00

Just focus on putting mass on your long ass frame. That's a masculine activity.

M23W0OH7FV2t · 2018-03-06T22:29:51+00:00

We all have our issues -- I'm 5' 4/162cm tall, don't smoke, no tattoos, and don't go clubbing or to concerts very often. I don't go looking for fights, but I'd imagine I'd hold my own if pressed.

I find I'm perfectly well-suited to the local wine bar -- and there are a number in Copenhagen.

[deleted] · 2018-03-07T03:22:26+00:00

Stop thinking about shit being masculine or not. Basically none of the shit that you listed has to do with masculinity anyway.

Title	How bad is it if you don’t really do typical masculine activities or hobbies in your life?
Author	TheManWhoSlays
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	March 6, 2018 6:14 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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