A bit of a controversial question here

Frosty_Connection867 · 2022-08-13T12:03:50+00:00

She could not be ready yet and want to take it slow because she may feel you just want her for sex, if so then leave but if you're interested in her romantically, stay. She may not be ready because she is insecure about her body and needs to trust you more. Just keep having good banter with her and act as if it didn't happen

atomant88 · 2022-08-13T12:12:53+00:00

just go back to building intimacy and try again later. there's no rush. some girls just need time to warm up

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-08-13T15:04:22+00:00

Women, for the most part, are not like men, for the most part; sex to (most) of them is a huge deal. I saw someone say they may not be ready, there are some people who won't have sex until marriage, I'm guessing you don't know everything about this girl...she may have an issue. Real world example that happened to me many years ago. Similar situation to what you're post said. Hot, heavy, got the look in her eyes.....bam can't go. This happened like three times, we got started on a fourth, before we go too far, she became very nervous, frightened looking actually, voice cracking and tears were in her eyes. I have to tell you that I have herpes, it is not active, but it's my responsibility to.let you know. She said she would totally understand if I broke up etc. Grown up thing to do, she wasn't very old, we practiced safe sex etc. If you don't know, you have to at least explore all the possibilities.

Fate-in-haze · 2022-08-13T19:35:22+00:00

Do you like the girl in question? If so give her time, the sex will come. Take a quality focused approach to this stuff as opposed to quantity, that way you'll avoid the pitfalls of becoming a validation junkie by becoming too attached to feeling like you have to focus on a high quantity of hookups.

zapadz · 2022-08-13T21:26:03+00:00

No. Do a freeze out. Then try again later, if she still rejects you then move on.

kettlebell_workout · 2022-08-13T22:34:51+00:00

It is a "slut defence".

She does not want to appear "cheap", in front of your eyes. This, is such a bs, in my opinion and it is really annoying, but every women has it.

Just respect her decision. And try again later.

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-08-14T16:32:25+00:00

If you haven't noticed people hate rejection. They hate it so much that it prevents many of them from even trying to talk to people they are attracted to.

Title	A bit of a controversial question here
Author	Perfect_War5446
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	August 13, 2022 11:40 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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