What are your thoughts on guys, men, who lose theri virginity to an escort, prostitute/hooker, or sex worker? or go to one on a very long dryspell?

XanderS311 · 2022-07-14T19:58:34+00:00

The most expensive sex is free sex

ChiangRai · 2022-07-14T19:07:15+00:00

To be honest. My theory is you gotta have experience to be good at it. So why not practice first and surpise the girl. Even though most dudes don't like to admit their weak dick game sometimes hinder the relationship.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-14T19:10:54+00:00

I've only considered it under the condition that I was so slandered by what life through at me, any conventional approach was too risky for me, or the party involved. All I had to do is get laid, and it would dispell the rumor.

I think people saw the desperation it created in my life to where if an escort was really required, why couldn't someone just do the job of dispelling the rumor. It's like saying, "okay, he was with his girlfriend, that wasn't true." I didn't need an escort when someone finally lifted a finger and did their job.

may-begin-now · 2022-07-14T19:20:25+00:00

I personally have a mental block on exchanging money for sex with a pro . Several layers of blocks lol I can spot fake desire miles away and that's a real turn off for me. I feel my partner should truly desire my touch. If I can't get her fired up with my words then it's not worth it to me. Not that my way is best for anyone but me. It's completely your choice.

rudebwoy100 · 2022-07-14T20:11:12+00:00

If all you want is sex then paying for it is the most efficacious way to go about it if you have the $ to spend. If you want a relationship but are settling for paying for it then it's a L imo.

BigTBoneDog · 2022-07-14T19:08:13+00:00

Well, I wouldn't recomend.
But if I did it then I wouldn't tell a soul that I lost it that way.

Maybe it is a good way to remove a mental block, idk.

2022-07-14T21:54:54+00:00

I think it’s a bad habit, as insteading of trying to earn ur a girl that fuck. It’s just giving you a free one, plus that money could be used to invest in ur self not ur cock.

MattIsFocused · 2022-07-14T19:30:52+00:00

The status of your v-card will not magically transform your life. Sex with a prostitute might not be as great as you imagine, it could be a humiliating expirience. You can't know in advance. The better way is to free yourself from thinking it is important and focus on building your confidence on a solid foundation: life goals, friendship, family, health

Women should never be the foundation of your confidence.

GeorgeKaplanIsReal · 2022-07-14T21:34:32+00:00

Friend did this and he was happy. Hell I took him there.

It is what it is. Personally I found out I enjoy the challenge.

ftdrain · 2022-07-14T19:03:59+00:00

I think its pathetic if you need to do this, but no one needs to know, just lie, who cares.

modsRlameIRL · 2022-07-14T19:34:48+00:00

In another country it’s whatever, but in your home town it’s a bit… sad.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-07-14T20:32:57+00:00

People talk a lot of shit about that, but I don’t really see what the problem is. I don’t do it myself, but if you want to pay for a professional and can be reasonably sure you’re not risking any STDs or whatnot, you do you.

Think_History_5682 · 2022-07-14T21:16:22+00:00

It's great, not my v card but men should really do this if they are not getting sex regularly. It builds confidence and intimacy skills. Which women will appreciate.

starfire_xed · 2022-07-14T22:00:07+00:00

What about losing virginity to mom's friend ?

Title	What are your thoughts on guys, men, who lose theri virginity to an escort, prostitute/hooker, or sex worker? or go to one on a very long dryspell?
Author	Ectoplasmic1984
Upvotes	7
Comments	20
Date	July 14, 2022 6:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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