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[–]dgj130 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Honestly sometimes this just happens, and there's very little you can do to control it. You're not the only guy she's talking to, I'd assume. Try another time and then accept it as a loss.
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[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because she has other guys she can talk to. You are just a number in her endless stream of candidates. Go talk to more women duh
[–]Shane_rebel25 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also, I think if a woman sees that things are moving too slow with one guy, and they have another dude who acts more interested/takes more initiative, then they'll take that opportunity over the 'nice guy'. I've had many instances like this, last girl I was interested in stopped talking to me after she heard I didn't have a car lol. This was almost 2 years ago. Keep your options open Imo my brother
[–]dgj130 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly man I've had it happen to me countless times, it's just the name of the game I'm afraid. I would see if she's interested in actually meeting up, if she still is cold then just move on.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude, it’s tinder and you talked with her for 2 days. You are not the only guy she talks to or the only one she can like there. You got attached due to lack of options, she has more options so she doesn’t get attached so easily and can quickly move on.
You are overanalysing too much when she probably isn’t even giving it much thought considering you are just an stranger that she is being talking for 2 days.
[–]Initial-Laugh1442 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She has too many options. You were interesting for a short while, now she's being entertained by some other dude. Move on.
[–]nevertextgoodnight 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're not setting a date that's why. people are not on tinder to meet friends. You're asking her for drawings while she's getting ready to go meet up with another dude who said come over let's fuck
[–]rjones416 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
when you said "met" i thought you actually met up with her. talking on tinder literally means nothing.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women have a on/off switch for attraction. Basically when they get the sense that they "got" the guy, that they have caught him and he is putty in her hands, the attraction switch goes to OFF instantaneously. You were literally zero challenge and told her you like although you've never met her before.
[–]Mundane_Natural5131 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Eaither her ex came back or someone she likes more has started chatting her or maybe sometimes when you dont make a move fast women lose interest for that too ironically i ended up in the friendzone for being too “respectful” its true when they say nice guys finish last you have to take the risk like fuck it and just go in for the kill while you still can
[–]ncsakira 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right now I've been waiting 2 hours for a girl outside a kebab shop ...
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