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Ankwilco · 2022-06-23T18:07:33+00:00

But I feel like I’m getting mixed signals from her. It’s weird and it’s hard to explain.

That tells it all, doesn't it.

You wouldn't give mixed signals to someone you were into. Why accept anything less, then? Especially from someone who you'd wanna be with?

Let yourself let her go.

Find someone who'll reciprocate better.

Lighthero34 · 2022-06-23T18:47:35+00:00

But I feel like I’m getting mixed signals from her.

No you aren't. You're just interpreting it that way because you want her her want you.

I would ignore her. Leave, keep in contact tho. Get bigger, more athletic, better shape, w/e.

Come back with a six pack and better style and she'll fuck you. Why? Because we live in a shallow world whether anyone wants to admit it or not.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-23T18:34:18+00:00

This is a waste of time and money considering you buy her food everyday and get her anything she wants, as if you hoped that doing those things would make her want to date you. It won’t.

You cannot bribe a girl into liking you romantically. So you should drop all of those things you buy for her. Doing those things are only making her see you as a tool or a simp.

Talking for one year and no sex happening is already a big enough sign that she doesn’t like you as more than a friend.

Heck any guy could easily have sex with her within a week of meeting her and you are there waiting for a whole year.

There is no such things as mixed signals. She made herself clear she only sees you as a friend and anything beyond that is you trying desperately to look for signs that she might be into you rather than simply accepting that those things you take as “signals” are just friendly behaviour.

You need to get to know other girls, and try to get into relationships with those other girls. With this one it just isn’t gonna happen

jackzander · 2022-06-23T21:41:43+00:00

Wtf. Don't buy her food every day, buy me food everyday.

Snoo_1087 · 2022-06-23T23:35:33+00:00

Sounds like she is just getting the most out of you. She may not realise it or be doing it intentionally but she is taking advantage of you, exploiting you. You see exactly why you need to get out of that mess and the only way is to shake her out of your head, have contempt for what you cannot have, and move on.

Beneficial-Tip-4044 · 2022-06-24T09:24:22+00:00

what a cruel bitch to let you buy her food everyday knowing how you feel. Unbelievable. Stop talking to her, be dry and short and quick to end any discussions. She only using you so dont let her trick you into thinking anything can happen. its been a year and i promise shes been fucking other guys in that entire time. drop her. and then level yourself up (work out) so the next girl will see your value. stay strong king. your future wife would be so mad at you letting yourself be used by this bitch, just think what she'd tell you!

PS1CSLAYA · 2022-06-23T18:08:45+00:00

If a girl wants you, she will definitely let you know. Its ok to be kind an nice to others but don't lose yourself in the process. Remember, take care of yourself first. The right one will be organic and no one will be able to be like her. Ive been together with mine for 29 yrs strong, despite a big breakup, a gulf war and family drama. Good luck.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-23T19:58:40+00:00

You became a simp and she’s taking advantage. Move on. She’s not interested

Thesupercomputerz · 2022-06-23T19:07:19+00:00

You're a simp.

PS1CSLAYA · 2022-06-23T18:12:24+00:00

Absolutely, anytime.

futuremo · 2022-06-23T20:43:01+00:00

Please stop buying her food yesterday

focus_flow69 · 2022-06-23T21:21:32+00:00

Just stop. Cut all contact from her. That's your only action.

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Date	June 23, 2022 5:56 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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