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[–]PtheScoundrel 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He's obviously reserved about it and unsure how you feel, probably worried about ruining what you have. . If the signs are there, just tell him. There's nothing Sexier than a woman who goes for what she wants.
[–]TrueDarkNorth 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just go up and ask him if he wants to grab a drink/meal sometime. At least in the gym he’s more scared of you then you are of him. No normal guy wants to be the creep who hits on women while they work out so you need to make the first move.
[–]cheesencracker222 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Go get that number. "You miss 100% the shot you don't take"
[–]baddiewphattie2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
True!
[–]rogue0820 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There’s really only one true way to go about this. Go up to him, say:
“Omg I think I’m having an allergic reaction” When he starts freaking out etc flex on him and then say “I’m getting all swollen from all this iron”
BAM. number received.
[–]Smitty-TBR2430 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Invite him to get a protein smoothie after your workout.
[–]Proper-Rub6270 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Establish eye contact and smile at him. Do it few times. If he wont approach you, then ask him about some excersise.
[–]jackzander 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gift her one temporary tattoo. Ideally a shark.
[–]janusz_z_rivii 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just approach him and say "Hey, nice pecs bro!", that's what gym bros say to each other. You will see the conversation will unfold naturally from that point.
[–]Fat_Fucking_Lenny 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have you guys talked at all during this time? If so, how does it normally go? If not, just say hi. Make up and excuse to talk to him and go from there.
[–]LucianU 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do you ever talk or are you just looking at each other?
You could initiate small talk or ask his advice about something. Hopefully, that will encourage him to ask you out.
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