Approached, I guess, still need help.

Kennymacdougall · 2022-06-17T21:43:26+00:00

Those bitches were lying their asses off anyway. Welcome to the world of Women and their lies.

It's good that you go to a party. You can easily approach her and just ask them who they are. Just a normal conversation. No complimenting. Just keep it casual and get used to taking to women in general.

You can do this brother

Plumbcrazy690 · 2022-06-17T21:10:38+00:00

Women can smell desperation. When you're happy in your own skin you're more attractive when you don't need a woman that's when they want you have you ever noticed well I have when you're with a woman all the other women stop and stare at you. Because they want to know what you have. I went to a convention walking across the floor in the convention hall absolutely mobbed with people holding my girl's hand and had a woman absolutely drop-dead gorgeous stop dead in front of my face about 1 ft away look me right in the eyes wink at me and then throw me a kiss with her lips. I thought my girl was going to rip my hand off LOL and had I been alone that never would have happened. Find a group of girls to go out with. All the smart guys hang out with the girls. Just as friends. Your intention it's the fine one not in the group. And I promise you it will happen.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-17T21:11:03+00:00

Expect to get rejected a whole lot more. Like expect to get rejected a hundred times before you finally hook up with a girl easily.

Also, approaching without knowing what to do is pointless cuz you will be repeating your same mistakes over and over, you need to learn about seduction process and the social skills.

You can read some books to learn it.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-06-18T01:24:56+00:00

Dude you're going on about cowardice but 90% of the dudes here could not approach a woman, let alone within 2 weeks of lurking this sub...

Honestly, how straight forward you were is good. Some people get caught up in David Blaine Street magic pick up where they think they got to put on a show and impress everyone on the god damn block but in reality it's not much more than what you're doing

Approach, show intent and then ask what she's doing so maybe you guys can hang out instantly, or get her # if she's busy...

People romanticize extravagant conversations with strangers but that generates arbitrary results at best and wastes time. Wait till you have a 20 minute instant date and she still rejects you... It makes no difference in the macro level if you were to just go up to every girl and say "would you like to go out" after a brief introduction

You're doing great and by the law of averages you'll eventually get results after your mandatory rejections

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-06-18T09:03:31+00:00

It’s great your taking action, but your mindsets are holding you back. You should be focused on letting go of the outcome, and instead focus on having fun in the interactions regardless of outcome.

Replace the negative mindsets with positive ones. Each approach should be positive in your mind regardless of how it goes. Don’t get caught in self judgment after an approach. Your mindset should be positive after each one. If not, work on that.

Title	Approached, I guess, still need help.
Author	ShiningDraken
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	June 17, 2022 9:02 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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