Stop trying to understand what goes on inside the head of women, and what would make them attracted to you. Not even Elon Musk can figure it out. Save yourself. It's not worth it.

Just be who you truly are and live life according to your own expectations. Don't bother trying to get better with women, because even if you do become successful with women, it still sucks!

Think of Raymundo from Rocket power. Who fucking cares about anything! Liberate yourself and naturally girls who are actually down to earth and a good fit will gravitate towards you.