Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?

2022-06-12T17:36:19+00:00

more realistic alternative:

stop overstimulating your sexual drive with pornography, cut it completely out of your life. Switch to a moderate regimen of masturbating using your imagination only.
find a purpose in life and goals, that fulfil you.
cultivate deep friendship
engage in dating without focusing on the results, view it as a chance to grow and learn. Find a way to enjoy the process itself, not just the results.

Commercial_Habit_923 · 2022-06-12T17:07:47+00:00

Honestly OLD is such a waste of time, I just stopped giving a fuck.

Seems to have helped lol

FreedomWooden8605 · 2022-08-21T06:31:07+00:00

Guys, don’t hate anyone. Hate just makes things worse. Be as compassionate as possible. Take care of yourself, wish freedom to everyone.

The feelings you cultivate are very important for you, not only for others. I learned in practice:)

yyuyuyu2012 · 2022-06-12T17:31:58+00:00

Well being in a long term relationship and having someone cheat plus an ex giving me the run around after that made me realize quick lays (and not relationships) are the way to go. I think this made the proposition look fucking stupid on paper as I am trying to get my dick wet. This lowered the bar and made me realize it is not like I am looking for the mother of my child, but a quick lay, a disposable friend as Tyler Durden would say. That is my take.

2022-06-12T20:15:26+00:00

I quit dating awhile ago and I stopped giving af. Live your own life and make it the best you can. When you come to the self realization that you don’t need a woman to be happy, it’s truly liberating. They don’t have anything to offer except sex.

FreedomWooden8605 · 2022-06-12T16:25:15+00:00

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OuchCharlieOw · 2022-06-12T17:44:40+00:00

Once I found my career calling and started earning and developing passion it’s all I care about now. It makes it easier to disregard things that don’t matter much. Funnily enough that attracts others to you

mrblack-- · 2022-06-12T23:18:19+00:00

Start a business

2022-06-13T00:36:22+00:00

Evolution programmed people to survive and reproduce. Our brain is designed to make it difficult for you to forget about women. But if you want to know some hacks: Gaming, porn, some close friends, and maybe a doll....

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-06-13T12:06:39+00:00

You shouldn’t need to, just relegate it to lesser importance and make sure it fits into your lifestyle and goals

When other areas of my life fall apart I seem to focus on dating and women and it took me too long to realise that

Title	Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?
Author	FreedomWooden8605
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	June 12, 2022 4:07 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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