Is dating even worth it?

shared0 · 2022-06-04T03:44:02+00:00

It's extremely ridiculous that we always have have to be so careful not to say something wrong otherwise we lose the opportunity completely. Like I'm pretty sure this is solely a guy experience and it's pretty bullshit. Like what about when they say something stupid? But no ofcourse that's fine because they're not the desperate ones we are and online dating has already made it so that they can fuck up as many times as they want and still have endless options. Makes me sick tbh.

And yeah I kinda went through the experience you were talking about for a period of time when I was trying to get a date. The pain was intense whenever something just went wrong. And some of those times it's possible nothing has actually gone wrong but someone else they came across they happened to like more than you so they kinda just ghosted you even after the emotional connection that's been made, but obviously she can't turn down a better option no matter what, that's also a possibility.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-04T03:27:55+00:00

I learned to get over rejection by simply being humble enough to accept that not everyone i like has to like me back.

And that when i get rejected it’s not a reflection of my worth as a person or as a potential partner, but rather a lack of connection and chemistry.

And that is normal because if we could connect and have chemistry with everyone then that would be chaos, everyone would be cheating all the time, because everybody would be drawn to everyone.

So I realised that rejection is not about there being something wrong with my worth, and as such there is no reason for me to take it personal.

Because only the ego chooses to take things personal. But my ego is not my friend, it’s my enemy. I don’t need to feed my ego. I don’t need to protect it.

Because my ego is not who I am, it’s what i want others to believe I am, even if i’m not…

And caring about what other people believe i am, is pointless because no one cares that much about you, as most people only care about themselves.

2022-06-04T04:08:35+00:00

Wtf did I even just read?

Yes dating is worth it. I enjoy busting a fat load into a cute girl. Sorry MGTOWs, stick that into your mouth and suck on it

5_7pickup · 2022-06-04T06:03:57+00:00

Instead of complaining, why dont you learn from your mistakes and improve.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-04T11:31:39+00:00

It definitely worth it but you're such an extreme example. Rejection sucks ofc and you oftentimes never see the girl again if it's a cold approach but funny enough getting girls and being good at it is a skill. My personal philosophy about the topic but it's really a skill that she can't have but you have to do so bc it's skills, your own skills it's not really about the girls it's really more about you and how can you be better at it. Most guys can't even do approaches so be proud of that thing. If I do approaches one thing usually drives me, I wanna have fun so making approaches fun for yourself might be a better perspective. I usually got numbers, instant dates, sex etc what most guys dream of and why? bc I have fun so she can have fun also next to me. If I got rejected who cares till I have fun. It's important also to ask for a number but till its fun for you its gonna be most of the times fun for the girl too so you really cant fail in that way

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-04T04:20:03+00:00

Absolutely not! I stopped dating at one point and I started making it obviously clear to women that I am a guy who likes sex and is looking for a woman with the same hobby who likes practicing it. I don't pretend to be romantic or want to audition for them. Once you get in the dating frame you are basically supplicating. Because every woman is trained from very young to our men through the ringer. Coffee shops are a hot woman's playground. They know how to make you jump through hoops. So if you show up as the guy who is trying to sell her, she is forced in the buyer position and a good buyer must kick the tires and give the seller a hard time.

Title	Is dating even worth it?
Author	Yellow_Squeezer
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	June 4, 2022 3:08 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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