Walking out on girls if they are not single

Sea_Particular_9086 · 2022-05-28T21:29:30+00:00

I mostly let the women ask me if I am single. Go in with the mentality that the women does not have a boyfriend, unless it’s brought up by her. It’s bit strange to just ask that in the initial approach and then just walk away.

Subtle thing you can do is, if you had a decent conversation. "If it doesn’t work out here is my number.“ See if she takes it, and walk away like it doesn’t affect you.

TheLegendofMikeHawk · 2022-05-28T21:32:42+00:00

This might work well in heavily populated areas where you'll never see these people again. But these girls have friends, and their friends have friends, and word gets around. If it were me, I'd go for a quick, polite exit. No harm no foul, and if you're lucky she might recognize you when she's single, or tell her friends about this cute guy who came up and talked to her. . . And oh hey there he is! Come over here and meet my friend. . . Btw she's single.

Codi_Banks · 2022-05-28T22:09:36+00:00

I know its frustrating constantly getting the "sorry i have a boyfriend" response but asking "are you single" makes it look like you want to jump right into a relationship. That seems a little needy, especially if its to a girl that you just met. Make the girl EARN a relationship lol. That's the man's equivalent of sex. Don't give it up unless you have to, and only after you get what YOU want first. Thats the game.

It should start off superficially: "hey i thought you looked cute. Lets chat and see if we get along" let her know being cute isn't enough. If it is, you probably come off as too desperate and might want to raise your standards lol. Show you're interested in getting to know each other. You shouldn't CARE if she's single until there's something between you two.

foghatyma · 2022-05-28T22:24:45+00:00

You know, you can't really approach more girls if you omit saying something like "Okay then, have a nice day!" and then walk away. It's like 2 seconds. So let's do the math! How many girls do you approach a day? 10? 100? Let's say 50. Then it's 100 seconds, which is about one and half a minute. Dude...

In other words, yes, you are rude.

2022-05-28T23:16:31+00:00

Don't use that cheesy pickup line ever again.

Pain_Tough · 2022-05-28T22:46:39+00:00

I just go ballroom dancing and let them approach me

2022-05-29T08:40:25+00:00

There is no need to ask the girl if she is single. If you are clearly approaching her to get some sexual things going, she will definitely do it herself until some "cheat move" happens.

Title	Walking out on girls if they are not single
Author	JollyEye3
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	May 28, 2022 9:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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